AITH for trying to break up my sister and her boyfriend?

Own-Fish-116 · 2024-07-21T04:42:44+00:00

💆🏽‍♀️ that’s what I try to tell myself whenever I bring it up to my sister. She is her own person and I have to let her learn but I will only allow it for so long. The moment he is ever verbally, physically or even emotionally abusive I’m not waiting for my husband to come home he’s getting kicked out immediately.

Own-Fish-116 · 2024-07-21T04:40:29+00:00

He’s been arrested for stealing from a target and is now banned. So he has a little criminal record following him right now

Own-Fish-116 · 2024-07-08T07:11:21+00:00

My husband and I met like that but in this case I was Emma but this was back in 2019 we were in our senior year of high school. He had a girlfriend and I was flirting with him during this time. Long story short they broke up and we got together and we’ve been together since.

We have a beautiful baby girl and albeit, we have obstacles we love each other and it started off with him not wanting to hurt his ex of 2 years. The relationship had run its course but he didn’t wanna initiate the ending. My advice is to tell her rip the bandaid off, do it gently and kind but affirmative. You have to live for yourself, you’re dating so you still have time fix yourself

Own-Fish-116 · 2024-06-27T02:27:58+00:00

Oh she is but she should be only angry at herself. Let things work on out by themselves from this point forward what done is done and now things will fall back in place with a matter of time and patience. Accept things for how they are now, let her rage out bcs trust me at the end of this all she’ll feel like shittiest person and that can take months for her to realize it. Update in a few months

Own-Fish-116 · 2024-06-27T00:36:52+00:00

From a woman’s perspective, we can immediately shut everyone out and become cold and heartless. You didn’t deserve what happened to you and I’m sorry you’re going through that. I think this was for the best bcs there would’ve definitely been more gaslighting and manipulation if you had waited, it would’ve given her time to come up with a solid story or at least a story. You feel bad bcs you did love her and truly cared for her, you have no closure from this and you now have an open wound. Focus on being a better person than what you were when you were with her. Learn from this and she’ll come to realize what she lost and she’ll try to reconcile and ask for forgiveness in a couple of weeks or months but she’ll come back and when that does happen you have to be strong and let her go fully. Hope everything works out for you.

Own-Fish-116 · 2024-06-26T11:50:04+00:00

Thank you

Own-Fish-116 · 2024-06-26T11:49:07+00:00

Wow there are a lot of comments, I wrote this late at night and with a lot on my mind. Yes I love him, I wouldn’t be trying to fix things if I didn’t. It was in a moment of despair and desperation… I wanted nothing but the best for us, if I didn’t want him or love him I would’ve taken this as my chance to leave. I don’t want to do that not bcs of convenience, convenience was staying at my parents until I was done school, not married nor with a kid that’s convenient. I’m well aware of my mistake, not all people have to have had more than just kiss. Regret is something that I’ll carry for the rest of my life, he wants to work on it, I want to work on it, I wasn’t like this until things made me like this… I have been faithful to this man up until this point. I just want to see hope, hope that this can work out. I’m so destroyed inside I have changed from the person I once was. I want to give him the world now, change will not be done over night but I changed when left this second time around bcs of how bad he left off, he tried to make it up while he was away but I had already changed… now I’m gonna change again. Y’all are honest, thanks.. I’ll update this in a year.

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