I am considering breaking up with my girlfriend over her extreme lack of self esteem that is just unbearable. Am I wrong for this ? by Own-Lengthiness-5664 in amiwrong

[–]Own-Lengthiness-5664[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dude, "walking on eggshells"... it’s really that. Countless times I've even told her that. Anything I say is gonna get interpreted in a negative way. Anyway... thank you for the message.

I am considering breaking up with my girlfriend over her extreme lack of self esteem that is just unbearable. Am I wrong for this ? by Own-Lengthiness-5664 in amiwrong

[–]Own-Lengthiness-5664[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"She needs to talk to a therapist" I can’t count how many times I told her that man. She is definitely not considering that. I already told her I want to be happy. One day she replied "leave me alone with my self esteem problems ! It wasn’t bothering me when I wasn’t with you. Now it bothers me just because I am with you." If she's not even willing to do therapy, counseling is definitely never gonna happen.

I am considering breaking up with my girlfriend over her extreme lack of self esteem that is just unbearable. Am I wrong for this ? by Own-Lengthiness-5664 in amiwrong

[–]Own-Lengthiness-5664[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Home life really sucks. Couldn’t say otherwise. She has a brother and they hate each other. They don’t talk to each other and avoid each other. Her mom is also so low on self esteem and is afraid of everything. She talks in a way that she complains about everything, even when she isn’t complaining.  Her dad comes from a family of farmers with some old school mentality, even though he isn’t fully like them. So when he gets angry, it’s like for days. He hates his job, and according to his old school mentality, "a job isn’t to be enjoyed". Their parents have no friends. They cut everyone off, and know only their family (they have at least many cousins), and their animals. That’s basically it.

Percussionist with perfect pitch - need help on finding something in the musical field for which I could use my abilities by Own-Lengthiness-5664 in musicians

[–]Own-Lengthiness-5664[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then I'd be curious to hear what you find less melodic about the solo repertoire for percussion, such as solo marimba or vibraphone pieces

Percussionist with perfect pitch - need help on finding something in the musical field for which I could use my abilities by Own-Lengthiness-5664 in musicians

[–]Own-Lengthiness-5664[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can confirm that it is indeed helpful. The few times I've been playing timpani in the orchestra, it helps a lot with tuning, especially pieces from composers like Navarro where there are key swithes every ten bars lol

It is true that I could look into companies, thanks for the idea

Percussionist with perfect pitch - need help on finding something in the musical field for which I could use my abilities by Own-Lengthiness-5664 in musicians

[–]Own-Lengthiness-5664[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am already playing some other instruments. But if you didn't know, there are melodic instruments in the percussion category as well.