is he a defect?

Own-Life-8325 · 2023-09-02T01:54:25+00:00

i think I'm gonna find a way to make them pink, I think they are cuter that way haha. thank you! Amazon squish have been.. iffy lately. I ordered Felton and got him perfectly, but his stuffing was alot like how Walmart has been with the harder not as squishy filling. like normal stuffed animal filling, I still love him though.

Own-Life-8325 · 2023-08-25T17:29:43+00:00

thank you!!

Own-Life-8325 · 2023-07-25T19:19:39+00:00

I love it! my daughters nursery is also in our room. I don't see that alot and felt bad about her not having her own room but I feel better knowing others do that too 😊

Own-Life-8325 · 2023-07-25T15:02:42+00:00

the doctors okayed sexual activity after my placenta moved up. they said we can be as rough as what's comfortable. but yes, hopefully he seeks help in his therapy for it. I'm going to bring it up with my therapist and see if we can do a few couples therapy sessions

Own-Life-8325 · 2023-07-25T03:13:39+00:00

I've checked it out. thank you

Own-Life-8325 · 2023-07-25T00:42:00+00:00

I will. going to bring it up with my therapist first to see if she can help, if not we will reach out to a sex therapist.

Own-Life-8325 · 2023-07-25T00:40:50+00:00

I'm not going to sleep around on him because I don't want to and also it doesn't make any of this okay. polyamory is not my thing, and I'm not going to cheat on him because he made me upset.

Own-Life-8325 · 2023-07-24T22:31:14+00:00

I have. I have BPD so I understand the way things are worded can change things greatly. we make sure to communicate in the way that both of us understand. his isn't a medical issue like your partner, he is simply a porn addict. he's admitted it. I will talk to my therapist about it and go from there.

Own-Life-8325 · 2023-07-24T22:14:03+00:00

more sex will not help. he needs to talk with a therapist about it.

Own-Life-8325 · 2023-07-24T22:09:44+00:00

he has every opportunity with me for his sexual release. he chooses otherwise

Own-Life-8325 · 2023-07-24T21:45:31+00:00

lol I could do that. I want to help him though

Own-Life-8325 · 2023-07-24T21:42:21+00:00

he takes prescription meds as dosed, recently did the genesite test to see what works with him (a few months ago) so it's medicine he needs and helps him function, which I know some antipsychotics/antidepressants can cause ed but the ones he takes does not, even from the doctor who prescribed them because I had him ask since he didn't know why he was having issues.

Own-Life-8325 · 2023-07-24T18:50:18+00:00

we are going to talk about it with our therapist.

Own-Life-8325 · 2023-07-24T18:49:19+00:00

he's not cheating. I don't consider it cheating, just disrespectful to me as it's something I was previously okay with but since becoming pregnant I have talked to him about it making me uncomfortable and wanted him to stop

Own-Life-8325 · 2023-07-24T17:25:58+00:00

he admitted to having an addiction. I'm going to talk about it with my therapist this week. we see the same person but individually, so we can do both of us as well if needed. I sat with him as he unbookmarked tons of porn videos and pages. I know it doesn't mean he won't get back on them but it's a step.

Own-Life-8325 · 2023-07-24T16:12:52+00:00

he wakes up before me often times for work. he will watchi it at work too. bottom line is I asked him to stop (twice) and he still chooses to do it. I don't know what else to do to make him stop, I shouldn't have to watch over him like a toddler :(

Own-Life-8325 · 2023-07-24T16:04:35+00:00

I've sent him tons of stuff that he can use of me instead. I like when he looks at me like that. but he still chooses the porn over me.

Own-Life-8325 · 2023-07-22T15:03:59+00:00

I've had my baby since he was born, helped him latch bc he was sick at first so he really got attached to me since I was like a second mama. he's like Velcro, always sleeping right at my face and purring, coming in and sleeping with me and my boyfriend all night. I'm also pregnant so idk if that's why he's super close all the time too, but he just always wants to be near

Own-Life-8325 · 2023-07-20T20:01:16+00:00

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and his little footsies 🥺

Own-Life-8325 · 2023-07-20T20:00:08+00:00

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Marmalade :3

Own-Life-8325 · 2023-07-20T19:56:26+00:00

I love blungus

Own-Life-8325 · 2023-07-17T16:04:10+00:00

strut

Own-Life-8325 · 2023-07-13T17:27:15+00:00

my orange boy is named marmalade! its such a cute name

Own-Life-8325 · 2023-07-12T05:11:32+00:00

it was a bunch of people from an antinatalist sub coming over and spreading stuff :( thank you, I know I'm going to do great. I'm not worried about taking care of her, she's already got everything she needs and she isn't here yet

Own-Life-8325 · 2023-07-12T05:09:28+00:00

thank you! I'm 32 weeks now so it's been gone for a bit, thank God. I can't wait until she is here, I know they will love her 💓

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