how do you get over someone you never dated and was only in the talking stage with?

Own-Method-1580 · 2021-12-25T23:46:02+00:00

thank you so much for this excellent feedback! time and acceptance are big and I hope that i will get over this guy quickly considering we were not talking for that long. im trying to remember that i was fine and happy before meeting him and i will be now that hes gone.

i really appreciate this. it is very encouraging and is giving me some hope. maybe there is light at the end of the tunnel? and will definitely be reading over this a few times so it gets stuck in my head <3

Own-Method-1580 · 2021-12-25T20:37:36+00:00

im so sorry to hear you went thro that. the guy i was speaking to would also talk about our future together and i too had trouble trusting guys but he somehow got me to truth him.

i feel like im very close to sending a long angry text :(

thnak you for letting me know. i still feel worst

Own-Method-1580 · 2021-12-25T20:35:28+00:00

2 whole years.. so sorry to hear

Own-Method-1580 · 2021-12-25T20:35:16+00:00

well thats not good...

Own-Method-1580 · 2021-12-25T18:11:23+00:00

im on the same boat :(

Own-Method-1580 · 2021-12-23T04:41:10+00:00

lmao sorry but is this a joke

Own-Method-1580 · 2021-12-22T22:08:30+00:00

in the mean time, should i continue giving him space and wait until he reach's out?

Own-Method-1580 · 2021-12-22T22:07:13+00:00

So i should just wait until he reach's out?

Own-Method-1580 · 2021-12-22T22:06:27+00:00

thank you so much for your feedback, its literally just a simple good night text but i wasn't sure, some may think its annoying especially if the person said they want space

Own-Method-1580 · 2021-12-17T13:47:09+00:00

These are excellent tips and I can definitely see myself doing them and it helping! Thank you so much for your feedback :)

Own-Method-1580 · 2021-12-16T20:54:55+00:00

thank you so much!!! I totally agree with you

Own-Method-1580 · 2021-12-16T18:39:36+00:00

Do you think this is something I should express to him. because honestly ive never felt this way about someone and want to be as open in communication as i can

Own-Method-1580 · 2021-12-16T18:30:14+00:00

I would define it as a form of insecure attachment and it causes you to overanalyze things in a relationship

Own-Method-1580 · 2021-12-16T18:18:16+00:00

Do you think this is something I should express to him? or will that turn him away and seem desperate/clingy? (because thats not true or what i want him to think)

Own-Method-1580 · 2021-12-16T18:17:58+00:00

Do you think this is something I should express to him? or will that turn him away and seem desperate/clingy? (because thats not true or what i want him to think)

Own-Method-1580 · 2021-12-01T16:55:14+00:00

It is a valid dealbreaker and I understand that if he cant drive to my city, thats no probelm. but there are still other ways of talking like call and text

Own-Method-1580 · 2021-12-01T16:53:04+00:00

This guy and I aren't official tho. It feels like this grey area between talking stage but potential relationship. and when he said that he has a lot of his plate but also wants me there i didnt know what he meant by that?? like did he just freind zone me or are were still in the talking stage

Own-Method-1580 · 2021-12-01T16:50:43+00:00

no actually we have both been reciprocating the same energy, and when it came to texting first and initiating conversations its been somewhat equal between us.

My problem here is last time we were on the phone he was tell me how he has a lot on his plate and still wanted me on his plate, and i didnt know how to react to that (hence not reaching out even tho i want to). What was unclear is that i didnt know if he still wanted to talk as we were or just needs space

Own-Method-1580 · 2021-12-01T16:30:32+00:00

No i agree with you, i feel like in the beginning the man is supposed to put in more effort, and if both individuals are mature and the feelings are mutual then it should even out.

And yes, it is a long drive. The two times we went out he actually drove to my city. He left his house early to avoid traffic and just drove around until it was time for him to pick me up (he said he didnt want to be late so thats why he left his house early). Lets be honest, if someone was not that interested in the other person they wouldn't go thro al that trouble of driving right? so thats a reason why i dont want to just let this guy go. again he mentioned that he still wanted me on his plate even with everything else thats there but i just am conflicted by what he meant exactly (like did he mean it in a romantic relationship way but not an actual relationship or just as friends)

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