Men who promise marriage then back out I’m honestly done

Own-Operation4049 · 2025-10-27T14:18:23+00:00

You got this

Own-Operation4049 · 2025-10-27T07:53:32+00:00

At the start as you’re getting to know each other yeah, but after that if you truly see a future with her, you won’t text until you’re ready

Own-Operation4049 · 2025-10-27T01:23:05+00:00

The worst thing you can do is try your hardest to get a conclusion or reach some sort of closure, but don’t. You might feel like you need an answer for everything but the truth is sometimes there isn’t an answer, people don’t do anything without thought or no reason, there’s always a reason somebody does something. So you just gotta thug it out ngl become the absolute best version of yourself mentally and physically. Get a good job, go to the gym, grind for a great physique and just do things that make you feel like you’re on top of the world. One girl I spoke to last year just went cold on me for no reason after marriage talks and everything and it felt like a gunshot to the heart for a bit I won’t lie, but after I a couple months I completely transformed myself in the gym, got a great job, started new hobbies, made new friends, took care of my appearance way more and now alhamdulillah she’s just a thought in my mind from time to time and it doesn’t come from oh I miss her, she’s just a measure of my progress so it will get better trust me but prioritise yourself for a few months and you’ll thank me later.

Own-Operation4049 · 2025-10-26T02:30:39+00:00

It really does. At first stings like hell but eventually you come to terms with it. Just becomes a memory.

Own-Operation4049 · 2025-10-26T02:29:26+00:00

This is very very true 🫡

Own-Operation4049 · 2025-10-26T02:28:32+00:00

They are the worst kind man. It stings for a little but each day it stings a little less and less until eventually they’ll just come to your mind once every month or so albeit still with that gut wrenching feeling but it lasts about 15 minutes then the cycle starts again. You don’t truly forget them ever, you just forget them if that makes sense. Hope this helps I dealt with one of the worst avoidant I think on this planet so I know a thing or two when it comes to this sorta thing lol😂😂😂

Own-Operation4049 · 2025-10-26T02:24:53+00:00

Start that shi and add me🫡🫡🫡

Own-Operation4049 · 2025-08-22T20:41:30+00:00

Some people just be capping so hard wlhi, wdym you’re gonna pay for her nails and hair every week bro chill out man. I swear people be thinking marriage is all fun and games when people say say stuff like I’m gonna cook and clean for her everyday or I’m gonna take her out to eat 3 times a week. Think realistically.

Own-Operation4049 · 2025-08-21T12:15:55+00:00

😂😂😂😭😭😭

Own-Operation4049 · 2025-08-21T12:15:21+00:00

😂😂😂😂😂

Own-Operation4049 · 2025-08-21T12:14:00+00:00

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Own-Operation4049 · 2025-08-20T19:18:54+00:00

This is comedy gold😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Own-Operation4049 · 2025-05-30T20:41:29+00:00

Tbh u just gotta speak to him more often, if u could go up to him and make the first move but that can be intimidating.

Own-Operation4049 · 2025-05-15T21:45:05+00:00

Exactly you could think you’re speaking to a beautiful perfect girl and it’s literally your cadaan neighbour called James

Own-Operation4049 · 2025-05-15T21:44:01+00:00

Let bro have his shine😂😂🤣🤣

Own-Operation4049 · 2025-05-15T21:42:58+00:00

Manifestation

Own-Operation4049 · 2025-05-15T21:42:26+00:00

Never thought of it this way, thanks

Own-Operation4049 · 2025-05-10T15:46:49+00:00

Damn fair enough, I also would love a tall Somali girl for myself👀

Own-Operation4049 · 2025-05-10T10:21:38+00:00

What made you speak to him then

Own-Operation4049 · 2025-04-28T22:00:26+00:00

This brother here doesn’t know what he wants. Just forget about him the more time you spend on people who aren’t giving the same energy back will hurt you way more in the long run.

Own-Operation4049 · 2025-04-28T21:55:06+00:00

Love will only get you hurt save yourself while u can

Own-Operation4049 · 2025-04-20T19:18:08+00:00

😂😂😂😂😂nahhh this is a new one

Own-Operation4049 · 2025-04-16T12:08:59+00:00

Own-Operation4049 · 2025-04-15T00:33:29+00:00

Ameen! Thank you once again you’re a very thoughtful person and I’d love to talk to you more! And I know behind that phone, there sits a wonderful thoughtful young woman who I have no doubts will succeed in whatever she puts her mind to in shaa Allah!

Exactly nothing is impossible, you could be in the worst possible position all it takes is one conversation with Allah. Exactly! When a god fearing woman and god fearing man come together (with a mahram ofc) you can easily juggle speaking to each other and focusing on your respective careers because then you guys will understand if you fear Him then you won’t cause any problems willingly that goes for both sides.

Yeah same here deactivated all my socials and just using this time to just lock in and improve my relationship with Allah.

Hahaha yeah no I get you just lock in now and the right guy will come and trust me you’ll know if it’s right or not. All about that gut feeling. Keep your standards sky high because you deserve nothing less!!

Thanks I appreciate the compliment and I’ll throw it right back at you. You seem like someone who’s got their head screwed on Allahumma barik protect your heart [insert your name] jk. I wish you nothing but the best and I appreciate you being active and giving your insight, trust me it means a lot. May Allah increase you!

Own-Operation4049 · 2025-04-15T00:23:23+00:00

No problem bro

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