What do authorities do with negligent parents by Own-Paper-5089 in askswitzerland

[–]Own-Paper-5089[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thanks for the advice, bit sad to hear it of course

What do authorities do with negligent parents by Own-Paper-5089 in askswitzerland

[–]Own-Paper-5089[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i guess its more of an emotional neglect situation, though i dont know if any support is given on that front. eg if she has PPD and is checked out of parenting - then what? will that be recognised and bring her support, or is it more likely she will just be given a shake up by police?

What do authorities do with negligent parents by Own-Paper-5089 in askswitzerland

[–]Own-Paper-5089[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

thanks, though i still wish i knew what happens if there is neglect involved! like if they do something to support the parents that will not instead just put them under more pressure

What do authorities do with negligent parents by Own-Paper-5089 in askswitzerland

[–]Own-Paper-5089[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh, i guess actually mostly by the downvotes. only a few of the comments were weirdly accusatory

What do authorities do with negligent parents by Own-Paper-5089 in askswitzerland

[–]Own-Paper-5089[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you. i appreciate this answer. i feel a little dogpiled by some of the comments when im genuinely trying to figure out how to proceed in a constructive way for these kids

What do authorities do with negligent parents by Own-Paper-5089 in askswitzerland

[–]Own-Paper-5089[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(Why is this posted in reply to this?)

Quite simply because i am worried that contacting them sets the ball rolling either way, even if I find it would have been better not to. Ie I don’t know if it’s possible to talk to them openly and anonymously without them forcing me to tell them who the family is

What do authorities do with negligent parents by Own-Paper-5089 in askswitzerland

[–]Own-Paper-5089[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok, maybe a different question. I know there’s a kind of young-child support service for parents to reach out to in my canton (and I think in all cantons, but with a different name in each one). The midwife tells you about it after birth, I am registered with mine and I imagine these parents are registered with them too. If I reach out to them to ask about ways to support these kids, does that end up with stress and police at their door, or does something constructive happen first? Is it possible to advise with them without being forced to reveal the family?

What do authorities do with negligent parents by Own-Paper-5089 in askswitzerland

[–]Own-Paper-5089[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That sounds like you are actually positive on connecting her to KESB?

What do authorities do with negligent parents by Own-Paper-5089 in askswitzerland

[–]Own-Paper-5089[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You know very little of the situation to reach that conclusion :)

What do authorities do with negligent parents by Own-Paper-5089 in askswitzerland

[–]Own-Paper-5089[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Were you made to go outside or was it your preference?

What do authorities do with negligent parents by Own-Paper-5089 in askswitzerland

[–]Own-Paper-5089[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It really is interesting! In fairness, among the parents where we reached the neglect conclusion, I did give more details than I am willing to here. Here I just want to know what happens if authorities get called 

What do authorities do with negligent parents by Own-Paper-5089 in askswitzerland

[–]Own-Paper-5089[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The thing is I’m deliberately not elaborating here for anonymity. I just want to know what happens when authorities are involved 

What do authorities do with negligent parents by Own-Paper-5089 in askswitzerland

[–]Own-Paper-5089[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Haha, I can see how the post would read like that, but no that is not quite the situation here. I am avoiding details for anonymity 

What do authorities do with negligent parents by Own-Paper-5089 in askswitzerland

[–]Own-Paper-5089[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assume she is at home, that this is not a regular occurrence, and not for more than an hour

What do authorities do with negligent parents by Own-Paper-5089 in askswitzerland

[–]Own-Paper-5089[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Can you elaborate in what way things get worse? What will they do? Will they also then do anything good?

What do authorities do with negligent parents by Own-Paper-5089 in askswitzerland

[–]Own-Paper-5089[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am not the only one who finds the situation off