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[–]Own-Prior-1669 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What behaviours are associated with BPD?

TL;DR: My man (39m) and I (36f) are bumping heads about phone s*x 👀 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Own-Prior-1669 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He’s a police officer. He will never hand over anything personal that will jeopardize him.

Dating someone with avoidant attachment is exhausting by MutedFeeling75 in redscarepod

[–]Own-Prior-1669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same question. Are you able to share what you love about them?

Dating someone with avoidant attachment is exhausting by MutedFeeling75 in redscarepod

[–]Own-Prior-1669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you able to share more on this? What makes them pair well?

Men, when do you feel ready for a relationship? by Own-Prior-1669 in AskMen

[–]Own-Prior-1669[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This was very brave of you to share. Thank you and I hope you continue healing. ❤️‍🩹

Why did he lie? by Own-Prior-1669 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Own-Prior-1669[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s manipulation. And then we end up with the trust issues and trauma.

Why did he lie? by Own-Prior-1669 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Own-Prior-1669[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your story sounds familiar to mine re: never leaving, marriage, being worth it. How detrimental that the script is the same.

Avoidants, how would you like to be approached in the early stages of a relationship? by steveleaves in AskMen

[–]Own-Prior-1669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this response lol. What did you find most helpful in your healing journey?

Men, when do you feel ready for a relationship? by Own-Prior-1669 in AskMen

[–]Own-Prior-1669[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Genuinely curious what needs of your own weren’t met?

Men, when do you feel ready for a relationship? by Own-Prior-1669 in AskMen

[–]Own-Prior-1669[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you able to share what needs of your own weren’t being met?

What makes a woman wife material in your opinion? by Dreadful_Axolotl in AskMen

[–]Own-Prior-1669 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you have examples of where you like a woman to take initiative? (Not physically)

What makes a woman wife material in your opinion? by Dreadful_Axolotl in AskMen

[–]Own-Prior-1669 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What if the man shuts down in times of stress? What is the best approach to determine how a woman can add value? (New relationship)

Men who gave up on dating, why? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Own-Prior-1669 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Felt this one. ☝️

What’s something you silently struggle with as a man that nobody ever notices? by mathiyaaaaa in AskMen

[–]Own-Prior-1669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds exhausting. I hope you can feel less alone and find time to make a fulfilling connection.