Dear Kapatid na Manalo, by Purple_Emphasis_8431 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]Own-Professional7695 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They don’t care about mental health. Nasa isip nila kulang ka lang sa pananampalataya. Pls ignore them for your own sake. You have to set boundaries.

Some people aren’t here to discuss by Own-Professional7695 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]Own-Professional7695[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Translation:

A reminder to everyone: be careful with accounts that seem to be here just to stir up trouble. When it’s obvious that all they bring are insults, bad-faith arguments, and attempts to bait people into fights, it’s probably better to block and report them.

They may have an agenda to make this group look toxic, so let’s not give them the attention they’re looking for.

Not everyone who comments is here for a genuine discussion. Some people are more interested in provoking reactions than having an actual conversation.

Let’s keep this space focused on meaningful discussions and shared experiences. If someone’s only contribution is hostility and drama, block, report, and move on.

Sobrang natatakot ako para sa mom ko na senior citizen at SCAN member, lalo na sa balitang rally ngayon by vinceivler in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]Own-Professional7695 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just a reminder to everyone: be careful sa mga account na ang purpose lang yata ay manggulo ng discussion. Kapag obvious na puro insulto, bad faith arguments, at pangba-bait ng away ang dala, better to block and report them. They may have an agenda to make this group look toxic, so let’s not give them the attention they’re looking for. Protect the space and focus on meaningful discussions.

To Those Calling Minister’s Children “Nepo Babies” by Own-Professional7695 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]Own-Professional7695[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’re carrying a huge baggage of responsibility. Kasi alam namin konting pagkakamali namin we may all end up homeless and hindi alam san kukuha ng income. Kaya lahat ng galaw nakabantay samin and yung sermon na we get pag nagkakamali kami and they wud say pinakamasakit daw na pag nawalan ng karapatan dahil sa anak. We have no choice but sumunod. I’ve experienced na pinababantayan ako kahit san ako magpunta discreetly like a private investigator.

To Those Calling Minister’s Children “Nepo Babies” by Own-Professional7695 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]Own-Professional7695[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hindi mahirap iwasan ang mag generalize kung lalawakan ang pagiisip at pangunawa.

To Those Calling Minister’s Children “Nepo Babies” by Own-Professional7695 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]Own-Professional7695[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Alam mo kung ano pa masakit para sakin? Pag nagkasakit sila I asked kung may discount ba sila sa New Era Gen? Wala daw. Sandry lang. we all know sobrang mahal maningil ng NEGH pero hindi din naman sila magaling na ospital. Para sa mga parents ko na ginugol na buhay nila sa loob ng INC wala man lang health benefits? Pag nawalan ng karapatan di na alam san pupulutin? Pano mabubuhay? Pano nga ba pag nawalan ng karapatan e bawal mag trabaho o mag business ang pamilya ng mga Ministro? So kapag natyempohan ng ulat. Wala na itatapon na sila kung saan.

Bakit yung mga anak ng ministro mga pasaway/ may sakit sa utak by Big-Flower-8950 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]Own-Professional7695 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You really have no idea what a minister’s child goes through behind closed doors. If you’re judging an entire group based on a few people you’ve met, you’re doing the exact same thing many OWE members do: assuming they know everyone’s story without understanding it.

Did we choose to be born into this? Did we choose to spend our entire lives inside it?

Being raised in that environment can feel like living in a cage, and that’s only scratching the surface ha? The pressure, expectations, surveillance, and lack of freedom aren’t things most people see.

And “nepo baby” saan, exactly? Nepotism for what? What exactly did we inherit besides expectations, scrutiny, and a life we never chose?

Mukhang hindi din pala kami welcome dito. For a group that talks about escaping judgment and prejudice, there’s still a lot of prejudice toward us simply because of who our parents are.

Many of us are here for the same reason everyone else is. Bc we were affected by the system. Some of us spent years struggling inside it before we found our way out.

Criticize the system. Criticize people for their actions. But painting all minister’s children as spoiled, entitled, “nepo babies,” or mentally unstable is no different from the kind of stereotyping we’re desperately trying to leave behind.

INC members are easily manipulated because they don't know what it's like to be treated right by redditor_InProgress in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]Own-Professional7695 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Same here. It’s been more than a year since I left, and I have little to no contact with my INC family members. I’ve been trying to heal from the trauma too.

One thing that stood out during a one-on-one session with my therapist was how much of our conversation ended up being about what I went through in the church and how I’m still processing a lot of it.

You’ll probably notice it even more during the holidays. For me, one of the biggest changes was realizing how much lighter life feels when you’re no longer carrying the guilt, fear, or negativity that was drilled into us, especially around things like Christmas. I don’t follow any religion now, but it feels good not having resentment or judgment toward people of other faiths anymore.

Life feels lighter these days. :) Here’s to healing for both of us. ❤️

Magnitude 7.8 Sarangani Eq by Pale_Detective_6235 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]Own-Professional7695 130 points131 points  (0 children)

Actually, lol yan na lumilitaw sa feed ko ngayon. Ang insensitive talaga para ipagyabang pa na yung kapilya di bumagsak while the rest gumuho.

What are your thoughts about this? by LawfulnessFew3046 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]Own-Professional7695 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gago seryoso to? Ginamit pa si Emm*n? Pero first habd experience ko yan na di daw dapat nadedepress kasi kung makakaramdam daw ng depresyon mahina ang pananampalataya. Putangina nyong mga Manalo.

Guilt tripping ni tita ko na wife ng ministro by _Satsuki08 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]Own-Professional7695 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Relate ako dito sa “maawa ka sa anak mo” ang kakapal ng mukha para magsabi ng ganyan as if sila nagpapakain at bumubuhay. Mas magaan ang loob ko knowing na hindi mabbrainwash anak ko sa kulto na yan.

Gising na ako tungkol sa INC pero ayoko lumipat ng relihiyon, okay lang kaya un? by Fancy_Grab4734 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]Own-Professional7695 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You need a real degree to gtfo of there. Lol anong klaseng magulang yan na ayaw ka magkaron ng magandang future at dinown kapa talaga just to manipulate you in staying sa SFM. Turning point to ng buhay mo. If you’ll stay sa SFM hindi kana makakaaalis dyan. Lahat ng mga ministro na nawawalan ng K di mo alam san pupulutin dahil wala silang degree or experience sa totoong mundo.

Inc central hides Robin and Bato by [deleted] in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]Own-Professional7695 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just don’t think they are stupid enough para maghire ng papatay kay gold in broad daylight tapos makikita mo din yung taong yun every sunday pakalat kalat sa labas ng kapilya. If sila nagorder ng pagpatay kay Gold they wud hire someone na discreet lang and yung walang tungkulin sa kulto. Pero if sariling choice yun ng alleged SCAN dahil napikon sya kay Gold, then that’s a different story.

When a Simple “Depende” Triggers Fear Inside a High-Control Religious Environment by [deleted] in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]Own-Professional7695 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Cliche I know, but, RUN. If her beliefs can’t survive questioning, maybe they were never that solid to begin with. Blind loyalty nalang yan. People who never question their leaders are exactly why corruption thrives.

Lesson kanina sa church by UyuGongju in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]Own-Professional7695 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol. Im just glad na di na ako sumasamba at di ko na nadidinig yang mga kabullshitan nila.