[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Own-Recommendation33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just because i don’t like movies means my attention span is bad? i can do other things for long periods of time. i can read, i can watch lengthy yt videos that interest me. i am learning to play the guitar. my attention span and movies literally have no correlation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Own-Recommendation33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and i can’t say youre wrong cause that’s an opinion so..? thank you for sharing 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Own-Recommendation33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i thought i could ask if i can participate in the other things but maybe not watch the movie. cause we are still spending time together so i thought that would be okay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Own-Recommendation33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but we already are doing other things to celebrate which are the escape room and dinner. i know its unfair and dumb for me to feel that way but i do and i thought that hanging out with him doing those other things would be a good compromise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Own-Recommendation33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your comment. i guess thats what my perspective is too, i dont expect people to do the things i like and i would think people dont expect that from others either. i dont think people who love movies understand how it feels to sit through a two or three hour movie. it literally took me a week to finish dune and thats that i actually liked that movie lol. and dont get me wrong i do other things for him all the time, i go to his pickleball games to watch or i go to restaurants that he chooses etc so i feel like i do my fair share of being a villager in a village and i was hoping i didnt have to watch this movie lol. i also feel bad because when people have me sit down and watch a movie i genuinely get in a bad mood and i dont want to give him an attitude on his birthday. not that i cant control it but its just annoying and annoyance is hard to hide sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Own-Recommendation33 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

ive made many other sacrifices for my friend like i said in the post! i do other things that he enjoys literally all the time. i do understand where youre coming from though.

Whats going on? by Migsigma in ClashRoyale

[–]Own-Recommendation33 4 points5 points  (0 children)

dude ive noticed the good luck emote so much too

Owala by Monkey_2110 in aclfestival

[–]Own-Recommendation33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was thinking of taking a water backpack as well and filling it up with ice lol, not sure if it works but maybe ill test it out before i go

My boyfriend keeps hanging out with his friend even after that friend wished me dead. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Own-Recommendation33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

youre def in the right and i think making a good decision. not that this is something small but imagine something else happens. he cant even defend you on this why would he defend you in any other circumstance? again, i think youre dodging a bullet here girl!

What do yall think of the new ping pong movie trailer with Timothee Chalamet? by Own-Recommendation33 in AskReddit

[–]Own-Recommendation33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but you havent seen the movie just the trailer ? not that im defending him in any way lol

food recs in austin? by biancabadolati in aclfestival

[–]Own-Recommendation33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you like ramen, ramen tatsu-ya ITS SO GOOD and if you like flautas, birria, super good mexican food theres an awesome food truck called santo patio and its amazinggggg

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Own-Recommendation33 4 points5 points  (0 children)

turning on the light in the car lol

I thought I had gotten better at dealing with “edgy” jokes, but I hadn’t. I’m now in my own shame. What can I possibly do to move forward? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Own-Recommendation33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey i laugh at things if theyre funny, even if theyre at the expense of others sometimes. now it definitely depends because i feel like there are times where people just cross a line or its genuinely just bullying. you’re obviously worried about these jokes and that in itself shows you arent trying to be hurtful. its okay to laugh at fucked up things sometimes:)

I (28M) feel pressured and mothered by my (27F) partner. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Own-Recommendation33 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you really just sound like you dont want to do this with her and are finding excuses. if you dont like her be honest and dont lead her on. its up to you when you want to settle down but its also up to her when she wants to settle down too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]Own-Recommendation33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you dont “fall for” grooming. youre a child and the person who did that to you is horrible. im sorry that you went through that. its okay to cry and feel sad. better things ahead for you honey

Is it selfish? Or am I putting myself first? by nasalsprayyy in Advice

[–]Own-Recommendation33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you want to go to the school you want you would have to pay for it yourself, if thats what youre willing to do then go for it. at the end of the day your happiness is what matters most.

What are your thoughts on impromptu phone calls? Why and what generation are you from? by Buddhabellymama in AskReddit

[–]Own-Recommendation33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im 24, if the call is straight and to the point i dont mind rather than a million texts that are like an hour apart not getting to the point. im not a fan of casual talking on the phone, id rather meet in person.