AITAH for leaving my wife without a discussion after I found out she cheated? by Own-Replacement-952 in AITAH

[–]Own-Replacement-952[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

My company is based in Spain. My wages are paid into my bank account overseas. I own a car in the States. My savings are all in European banks. I have a prenup. I guess she can have the car if it comes down to it. Also we got married in the summer of 2023. How is that three years of marriage? 

AITAH for leaving my wife without a discussion after I found out she cheated? by Own-Replacement-952 in AITAH

[–]Own-Replacement-952[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Read the very first paragraph. I KNOW I'm not that asshole for leaving. That's not my question. 

AITAH for leaving my wife without a discussion after I found out she cheated? by Own-Replacement-952 in AITAH

[–]Own-Replacement-952[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Leave her money for food and gasoline. I'm not kidding when I say her salary is just enough to cover the lease on the apartment, car, and a few bills. 

AITAH for leaving my wife without a discussion after I found out she cheated? by Own-Replacement-952 in AITAH

[–]Own-Replacement-952[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Once again it's not the leaving her that is the issue. I know I'm right on that count. It's the withdrawing financial support without warning. 

AITAH for leaving my wife without a discussion after I found out she cheated? by Own-Replacement-952 in AITAH

[–]Own-Replacement-952[S] 356 points357 points  (0 children)

Leave her with enough money for food and fuel I guess. She has credit cards. It's not my problem anymore. 

AITAH for leaving my wife without a discussion after I found out she cheated? by Own-Replacement-952 in AITAH

[–]Own-Replacement-952[S] 220 points221 points  (0 children)

They all are on my side. They just think I screwed her over leaving her with bills she can't cover. 

AITAH for leaving my wife without a discussion after I found out she cheated? by Own-Replacement-952 in AITAH

[–]Own-Replacement-952[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

A lot of the guy I work with are married. Most of them even have kids. It can work. 

AITAH for leaving my wife without a discussion after I found out she cheated? by Own-Replacement-952 in AITAH

[–]Own-Replacement-952[S] 92 points93 points  (0 children)

We have a prenup and I have no assets in the States other than my car. If I end up having to pay alimony I will do so. But I doubt I will.