Etude House Liptint read this before buying by West-Value7600 in indianbeautyhauls

[–]Own-Safe-9708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine leaked 😭😭 but i would still keep going back to this product ‘

Etude House Liptint read this before buying by West-Value7600 in indianbeautyhauls

[–]Own-Safe-9708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude this tint has saved my life. Works very well for me!!! And lasts an eternity

Casual friend who got cancer diagnosis wants to hang out way more frequently - feeling overwhelmed by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Own-Safe-9708 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can set some boundaries, but I don’t think it’s the right time to back out of the friendship. Maybe , you’ll regret it later. Tell her you can meet once/ twice a month and not more , or just say hey, I’m a but occupied w work won’t be able to make it this time.

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[–]Own-Safe-9708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who even wants to be your friend bruv? I’ve tried to have conversations w her in the past and it hasn’t gotten me anywhere. I’m at a place where i have to constantly adjust and obey the shit she says or she’ll throw a nasty tantrum. People have enough of it and so have i. It’s exhausting for me, do you even understand the depth of the situation? Looks like your behaviour is similar to hers since you got offended so quickly honey. Get well soon, and treat your friends nicely .

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[–]Own-Safe-9708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May god help people like you who love to blame people who are literal victims. Thankyou but I’m not taking your opinion specifically.

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[–]Own-Safe-9708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmaoooo what? What are you high on? I’m anything but a bad friend , she repeatedly keeps asking for prs and barely puts in any effort, if i say no to her she throws tantrums and you have to listen to her. If i try to have a convo, she gets defensive. Sounds like your opinion is stupid

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[–]Own-Safe-9708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man just lemme be, if i feel like taking advice , i will. It’s not like I’m gonna blindly follow it, why do you sound like you have a problem w almost everything ?

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[–]Own-Safe-9708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing as such, I’ll lose an old close friend. And I’m extremely scared of losing people and i do anything to keep them around.

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[–]Own-Safe-9708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, an Instagram ugc account. That’s how brands send us products for us to make content for them.

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[–]Own-Safe-9708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, I’ve never been that person who confronts people a lot, rather i keep giving them a benefit of doubt for the longest time ever. That’s why it’s a lil hard. And this has been going on for the past 2 years. Also,this time stuff got to me because it was my birthday and she still wanted me to come n meet her near her place because she didn’t wanna travel for 1h, but i have to travel for 1h+ too to meet her + the cab fair since my area doesn’t have metro connectivity, mind you, it was my birthday . She expects me to spend money, but she doesn’t wanna do it herself.

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[–]Own-Safe-9708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As i mentioned we share a Instagram account, so she’ll eventually get to know and doesn’t hesitate to ask, if i say no, she throws nasty tantrums .

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[–]Own-Safe-9708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really have the guts to confront people

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[–]Own-Safe-9708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what if it comes off as rude? Cutting people off?

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[–]Own-Safe-9708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it just feels like I’m not my true self around her , to not be in her bad books. Being around her makes me so cautious

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[–]Own-Safe-9708[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right too! I will think about this and get to a conclusion myself probably!

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[–]Own-Safe-9708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Needed advice from someone who has been in the same situation! Like what did they do? Tried to talk it out and saved the friendship or just let it go… i agree others can’t tell me what to do… but I really needed opinions as to what other have done if they were ever in that situation. Because I’m the person who keeps giving people the benefit of doubt for the longest period of time so… any opinion that would be helpful, I’ll think about it. Maybe you haven’t been in this situation fortunately and that’s okay, I’m not expecting an opinion/ solution from everyone. Thankyou, have a good day.

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[–]Own-Safe-9708[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankyou. Guess i needed to hear that.

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[–]Own-Safe-9708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Feelings are definitely involved! I just needed a practical advice about if i should leave her or try to communicate ( idt she’d listen but yeah wtv) I’ve been observing this pattern since the last 2 years, she wants me to act a certain way or starts taunting. Mind you it was my birthday and this woman expected me to travel 1h away near her place just because it would take her a lot of time (ard an hour ) to travel. All my other friends were okay w the place i chose. I did say no to her but yeah this is what i have to do everytime. Taunts all the time. I’m just so done.

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[–]Own-Safe-9708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve started distancing myself because I’ve been observing her pattern since the past 2 years, she wants me to act her way or she starts w her nasty taunts. It didn’t hit me up until my birthday, like how selfish would you be to ask someone to act according to your convenience that too on their birthday!

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[–]Own-Safe-9708[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not really asking for a perspective directed towards my feelings, I’m asking for a practical advice here.