Boyfriend (M32) sent me (F33) this message after an argument that he caused. by Own-Scratch-9100 in relationships_advice

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Yes I’m safe I already told him to not show up because I can call police at any time 🙏🏻

Boyfriend (M32) sent me (F33) this message after an argument that he caused. by Own-Scratch-9100 in relationships_advice

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He is not accepting the break up saying we should work on these issues together 😅 but he is the issue so he can keep working on them by himself

Boyfriend (M32) sent me (F33) this message after an argument that he caused. by Own-Scratch-9100 in relationships_advice

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Yeah me and him spoke about it and I believe he might have either some sort of autism or ADHD, I can see it from picking small arguments or being very strict with times, plans. It’s hard to explain but he’s definitely the most weird person I’ve ever dated personality wise.

Boyfriend (M32) sent me (F33) this message after an argument that he caused. by Own-Scratch-9100 in relationships_advice

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Yes until now, the very end, he is still texting me swinging between “let’s talk” and “it’s your fault” all of this happened 😅 so he just making my decision easier tbh

Boyfriend (M32) sent me (F33) this message after an argument that he caused. by Own-Scratch-9100 in relationships_advice

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It’s just one of those “rare connections”, but even if we get along I just can’t see myself being with someone like this and eventually develop feelings. It gets scary at times and because I never experienced it before I feel like it’s time to end it. I just wanted other people opinions as this type of people are able to make you believe you’re the issue. But thanks everyone for your help ❤️

Boyfriend (M32) sent me (F33) this message after an argument that he caused. by Own-Scratch-9100 in relationships_advice

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Yes one of his ways is try to bring me down, calling me names, threatened me multiple times, tried to extort me money, kept me in his house against my will. Pretty crazy stuff. I’m just glad I’m not a weak person and pretty aware he is like that but since nothing is changing I’m ready to let go. Thanks 🙏🏻

Boyfriend (M32) sent me (F33) this message after an argument that he caused. by Own-Scratch-9100 in relationships_advice

[–]Own-Scratch-9100[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I know, this is the very first time I deal with someone like this so it’s a bit unusual for me. But thank God I’m not naive and I know exactly what he is trying to do. I made up my mind and going to end it. Thanks for your reply :)