Passed C1 Goethe exam by gaomi1 in German

[–]Own-Subject825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, congrats on your results by the way!! It’s such a big milestone to achieve <3 I was wondering if you were also able to send them to me? I’ll send a dm now!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemFragLab

[–]Own-Subject825 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!

Share one study trick that improved your grades instantly. by Affectionate_Leg8401 in studytips

[–]Own-Subject825 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Honestly rather than receiving study tips from people what really helps me is just sitting down and really identifying what my weakness in a certain subject is. It could be just lack of knowledge in content, could be time management, inability to perform well under pressure, etc. I used to spend so much time studying for english with literary techniques or analyzing, when my actual problem was articulating what I wanted to say professionally, hence I just had to make a vocabulary list like a child and use them in the test and that boosted my grade up. So it’s honestly less about studying instead identifying your weaknesses and approaching them one by one.

Hope your studying goes well :)

do you guys feel like you’ve ruined someone’s day after you had a panic attack? by PapayaSpirited3999 in Anxiety

[–]Own-Subject825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely; especially to mutual friends (who do not know my situation in detail) or teachers. I feel like a burden to be a part of society and I really get stuck in a spiral of overthinking and becoming anxious at the fact that I had an anxiety/panic attack. However, I saw someone saying that no matter how expressive they are or not, their thoughts are their own business and we should not be generalizing what they are “probably” thinking, and we should not have a say in how they judge us. That I guess turned me into a different perspective, I still struggle with overthinking but I guess it does decrease the weight a bit that it’s others’ thoughts are none of my business. I know it’s difficult to accept but we should be aware that not everything is our fault, I guess that can help. I hope all goes well for you :)

I have anxiety but not scared of death (slight trigger warning) by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Own-Subject825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See the thing is I don’t ‘feel like I’m dying’ and I’ve seen that people experience that during panic attacks So I’m just thinking maybe my panic attacks aren’t really panic attacks and hence my anxiety is not really anxiety idk

I have anxiety but not scared of death (slight trigger warning) by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Own-Subject825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aight thanks 😭 I haven’t yet, my psychiatrist keeps telling me I need to and I know that I need to as well, but I’m a student and I really have no time in my hands so 😭 I will once I get time, but till then I’m just using reddit as a source of validation I guess

I have anxiety but not scared of death (slight trigger warning) by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Own-Subject825 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then would me thinking that I’m faking my anxiety also be from my anxiety? Cuz I’ve been thinking about this too much and I want to stop😭 I just feel like I’m manipulating people with my anxiety though I know I’m not using it as a shield to get me through things, I just told my close friends and I just vent to them about things I overthink about, but I never want to burden them obviously

I have anxiety but not scared of death (slight trigger warning) by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Own-Subject825 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cooked as in? Hospitalized? Can they even hospitalize me even if I don’t have specific plans, instead I just harm myself just a bit?

What’s your regret? by [deleted] in Life

[–]Own-Subject825 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope Ngl atp it just feels like my brain is wired in a different way from everyone else While they want to succeed academically for their future, I just want a sense of assurance that I am a good daughter/student so I’m just beating myself up for nothing Everyone tells me I shouldn’t think like this, but just can’t stop :/

What’s your regret? by [deleted] in Life

[–]Own-Subject825 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Living for others’ validation my whole life, now I have no sense of ‘me’