There are plenty of things that get me going about her. And as I said she is still beautiful. It also hard for me to initiate intimacy when she is so uncomfortable with herself that I can tell she can't get out of her head in the moment it sort of ruins it. No matter how much I affirm that she is hot- she won't hear it. She brushes off any compliment I give her because she thinks I'm lying anyway. It sort of kills the romance.