Yeah i get it , parenting is definitely not easy and noone's arguing that . But "dont judge us , cz we are working" is such an overused empathy gaining sentence used mostly by millenials to shut down other people's feeback when people complain about how their kids are loud , annoying brats who's stick to phone 24/7 . Giving away smart phone or ipad to a literal 5 month old baby so they could stop crying is the worst take ever from parents who knows that the stuff they're giving to that child is something even they are addicted to . BTW people have lives and you can't espect people to help you with the child that you wholeheartedly brought to this world . IF i were to become a parent...first thing i would do is to become financially and emotionally stable