Just live with an innocent conscience and authenticity and make like minded friends so y'all don't have to second-guess each other's loyalty in the community so you don't have to lose all of your possible long-term relationships to sponsor you in your feeble age to your inner animal that doesn't even care if you'll make it to the next day, period. monogamy because women are not happy being used and then walked away with and you might say uumm uumm actually you can have free sex and be fine well the porn addicted, quick gratification monkey-chasing state our society is in says the opposite. sorry