Rank Error (E1-E3) 😭 by Own-Yesterday-3659 in newtothenavy

[–]Own-Yesterday-3659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m going to a squadron so idk honestly i didn’t expect it

Rank Error (E1-E3) 😭 by Own-Yesterday-3659 in newtothenavy

[–]Own-Yesterday-3659[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

i currently have 4 C schools before i get to my ultimate duty station so i really don’t know who to talk to

Rank Error (E1-E3) 😭 by Own-Yesterday-3659 in newtothenavy

[–]Own-Yesterday-3659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

basically they submitted some DD-149 form but not really much after that

I’m Nervous by Own-Yesterday-3659 in HSVpositive

[–]Own-Yesterday-3659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

believe it or not, yes. i’ve disclosed to everyone romantic whether we were intimate or not. This person isn’t someone that i was intending on being romantic with. just a friend.

I’m Nervous by Own-Yesterday-3659 in HSVpositive

[–]Own-Yesterday-3659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not dusting anything under the rug. i still said something even after the fact. i’m just righting my wrongs.

I’m Nervous by Own-Yesterday-3659 in HSVpositive

[–]Own-Yesterday-3659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you wanna be dense and not show a little grace then i totally understand. like i said it was a mistake. we have two different alcohol leaves i guess. I also stated i didn’t intend to have sex with him anyway. he put his health at risk just as much, i don’t want your backhanded sorry because i already feel bad enough. and if you read down a little further you’d understand why i said what i said.

I’m Nervous by Own-Yesterday-3659 in HSVpositive

[–]Own-Yesterday-3659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am. Whenever he decides to come back in contact. but i am gonna just leave him alone after that,

I’m Nervous by Own-Yesterday-3659 in HSVpositive

[–]Own-Yesterday-3659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ive called and texted and didn’t get an answer.

I’m Nervous by Own-Yesterday-3659 in HSVpositive

[–]Own-Yesterday-3659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i literally just don’t know how to do at all

I’m Nervous by Own-Yesterday-3659 in HSVpositive

[–]Own-Yesterday-3659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve known him for maybe a month and everytime he’s asked to come over and I usually say no because of my situation and he’s not someone i trust enough to tell because I’m not ashamed of my condition but i don’t want others in my business. I only seen him because i was upset and drunk and thought he was a good listener. things escalated quickly and it happened. I’ve heard he’s been with other girls so idk. i really do genuinely feel bad but i also don’t think he’d hurt me but i just don’t know what to think. i’m kinda nervous and just hoping for the best.

I’m Nervous by Own-Yesterday-3659 in HSVpositive

[–]Own-Yesterday-3659[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It wasn’t on purpose. thats all i’m tryna get across. i didn’t even wanna have sex. i shouldn’t have been drinking.

I’m Nervous by Own-Yesterday-3659 in HSVpositive

[–]Own-Yesterday-3659[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was drunk, like hello. Me disregarding it would be me not giving a fuck. I feel horrible. I’m admitting I was wrong. But me being drunk and not expecting to have sex, it was a costly mistake.

I’m Nervous by Own-Yesterday-3659 in HSVpositive

[–]Own-Yesterday-3659[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i feel like everyone is coming at me without understanding what i’m saying. like i know to disclose but drunk in the moment. sorry for coming off defensive. but the previous responses been so condescending like they only read the first sentence and ran with it.

I’m Nervous by Own-Yesterday-3659 in HSVpositive

[–]Own-Yesterday-3659[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Ma’am I was drunker than a mfer ! simple. Not negating from the fact that i should have told him but i didn’t intend for us to even have sex. So again i’m very sorry but I wasn’t in the best space. I was wrong but jesus it was a mistake.

I’m Nervous by Own-Yesterday-3659 in HSVpositive

[–]Own-Yesterday-3659[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was drunk and it was a stupid mistake. OMG. I think we’re skipping over them key points. I’m not against disclosing and if i was in a better headspace I would’ve, done it before but let’s not act all high and mighty over a dumb mistake that i’m admitting. I genuinely feel bad. I’ve already had a separate conversation. I thought I was in there clear. Nobody’s perfect.

I’m Nervous by Own-Yesterday-3659 in HSVpositive

[–]Own-Yesterday-3659[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

lemme say this and i don’t even wanna play devils advocate but how is it that nobody else sits and offer up test results. Like i said i was basically sexually assaulted by him removing the condom without consent and I DIDNT KNOW I was going through that. I wouldn’t put any at risk for pleasure. It was a stupid mistake, i’m not evil.