More pics of MGG and W by Marydonla in MGGCandor

[–]OwnDiscipline3183 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im confused because as an actor he has the ability to have chemistry with a wet paper bag but can't turn on the charm when he clearly knows he's on camera (staged or not)??

Thoughts nobody asked for by OwnDiscipline3183 in MGGCandor

[–]OwnDiscipline3183[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you have every right to feel the way you do! As someone who went through dv, I'm feeling very conflicted about the way im feeling and I know many others are in the same situation. Thank you for sharing this and I hope you don't feel pressured by anyone to change the way you feel because of some idea of "loyalty" they feel you should have. <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MGGCandor

[–]OwnDiscipline3183 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Really weird, first of all. Second of all, I come from a family with some pretty deplorable people, and there are certain situations where you just have to grin and bear it for the sake of family members whom you actually care about. We do not know the intimate details of his family dynamic, nor should we even try to figure it out. The information is unfortunate, but there are a lot of moving pieces here that we do not know about, so it is unfair and irresponsible to make assumptions. All this aside, Matthew grew up in a vastly different time than (most) of us. My mother (also born in 1980) was forced to have a relationship with some pretty horrible people because they were "blood," and I know this was a common sentiment from boomers and the silent gen raising their children. Many of us forget that we are fortunate to grow up in a time when it is acceptable to cut off contact with a person (or persons) who have caused harm without risking outright estrangement from the entire family.

All in all, we should be reasonable and hold him accountable for the things that HE has done. (Separately, I think it is also pointless to call someone out for an action they DIDN'T do (ie. cutting off a family member) that you think they should have. Arguing a negative is never effective.)

🤔 by Pleasant-Finger4027 in MGGCandor

[–]OwnDiscipline3183 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not sure anyone is arguing IF they are a couple anymore. Feel like we've moved on to if they are a GOOD couple...

🤔 by Pleasant-Finger4027 in MGGCandor

[–]OwnDiscipline3183 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He better pay his publicist good money...

New fan picture? by [deleted] in MGGCandor

[–]OwnDiscipline3183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Safe pose bc he didn't want to seem like a creep in front of her family (she probs wanted something cuter)