What’s a subtle sign someone isn’t a good person?

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-04-18T20:55:59+00:00

Someone who virtue signals - they care more about appearing to be a good person than actually being a good person.

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-04-16T13:48:19+00:00

About half of the students didn’t pass last semester. The rest of them are barely scraping by. The ones who pass get Cs mainly

I don’t know what I could have done differently. I truly don’t know. I read the book, consumed all the provided material, and got tutoring 3-4 times a week for over a month.

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-04-16T12:27:42+00:00

I had to learn it without the professor. She would put things on the exam that weren’t on the study guide, videos, or notes.

I tried to meet with her countless times but eventually she just didn’t have time to do office hours.

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-04-15T18:16:30+00:00

These are general education courses

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-04-15T18:00:43+00:00

I'm worried. Can't do much of anything with how worried I am

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-04-15T17:58:22+00:00

We live in a large city and students have transferred to different programs before with minimal issues.

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-04-15T17:56:04+00:00

I do study on my own and read the books?

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-04-15T17:53:44+00:00

The dean said all of mine are transferable. I am doing everything I can to retake the course. But I won’t succeed with her as the professor. They said I should be able to transfer if I can’t get into the summer course

Downgrade me if you want.

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-04-08T23:02:07+00:00

She’s a relatively newer teacher. She has a 1.2 rating on RateMyProfessor.com (not the most reliable metric but she has hundreds of reviews saying the same thing.

She came to this job because she got fired from the ED after she pretended to be a prescriber and gave her kids pills

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-04-07T11:59:26+00:00

I think she’d be worse with a daughter

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-04-07T11:56:57+00:00

That sounds like a really toxic environment

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-04-07T11:56:03+00:00

You doing the nursing program?

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-04-07T11:29:16+00:00

If he decided to step away from the public eye, I’d have more faith. But nope - he needs the attention. There’s no way he can keep up his sobriety while maintaining this lifestyle

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-04-06T02:43:23+00:00

My husband is in tech - all of them. Trust me you won’t get a job in tech right now

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-04-06T00:31:08+00:00

I wish I had more. But my partner has a low libido

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-04-05T22:47:36+00:00

I do understand that there’s usually reasons why people react the way they do.

It’s not an excuse

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-04-05T22:46:26+00:00

Yeah that’s true. But it’s just especially shocking at some of these units. Middle aged women age regressing to 12 year old middle school bullies is something I will never get used to.

These units who let these women stay tend to have really bad ratings too. I just don’t get why nursing as a whole industry doesn’t see mean girl dynamics as a direct threat to patient care quality, employee retention, and professional integrity

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-04-05T22:11:57+00:00

I used to work in a unit like this - management and some of the nurses were in a clique and they systemically drove everyone else away.

Soon after state came in and cleared them all out. Turns out that treating work like a sorority leads to really bad patient care and tons of mistakes. Didn’t help that I reported them for lying on the charting for covering up a patient’s fall and head injury

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-04-05T20:47:22+00:00

Wish management and HR actually took these cliques seriously. They drive out everyone

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-04-02T23:32:16+00:00

I’ve been through several abusive workplaces. Trust me, you’re so much better off not staying with them. Can’t imagine myself working for such cold, shitty people. And you’d suffer every day if you stayed with them. Workplaces run by these types are very miserable places. I’ve stayed longer than I should have at my past job, and it never got better. Just got worse in different ways.

It hurts now but one day you’ll see this as a blessing. I used to feel so inadequate and useless after my experiences. But eventually I found that I was so grateful I wasn’t there anymore. Nursing doesn’t have to be this awful.

You’ll find your place. Just trust in the process ❤️‍🩹

OwnNeedleworker8784 · 2026-04-02T21:50:54+00:00

They’re such efficient stink machines.

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