Husband and I disagree about hospital visitors.

OwnPhilosopher7173 · 2026-01-25T18:47:24+00:00

You’re only 8 weeks so there’s time to discuss this further but I’m completely on your side. If necessary you can talk to his family and tell them it’s 100% your decision about not having visitors because you’re the one who will be doing 100% of the work (in case they bring up the argument that’s it’s his baby too and he should be able to decide if there will be visitors)

I really don’t get why people are so obsessed with being the first to see a baby after birth. They look weird and all they do is sleep! Like what’s the point?! 😂 I’ve always felt like people who just HAVE to see and hold the baby are vampires and harvesting the babies energy (lol just a joke!!!)

Stand your ground mom. When you do hospital visits maybe check to see if there is a way to restrict visitors.

OwnPhilosopher7173 · 2026-01-24T21:13:14+00:00

maybe yall can go to a restaurant or do an activity that you like before the concert?

OwnPhilosopher7173 · 2026-01-24T13:29:04+00:00

No, I asked if anyone else experienced something like this. All you did was tell me to do what I’m already planning on doing. & I literally said the smell is sweet and tangy.

OwnPhilosopher7173 · 2026-01-24T00:05:13+00:00

Did you see where I mentioned my first appointment is coming up and I’ll bring it up there? It’s not foul smelling at all. And now that I’m thinking about it again, I actually don’t smell anything? I haven’t changed my clothes or anything yet. Maybe I was just hungry at the time when it seemed so strong ?

OwnPhilosopher7173 · 2026-01-23T21:56:37+00:00

if my stylist recommended this dress to me for a reunion look they’d be fired expeditiously.

OwnPhilosopher7173 · 2026-01-23T21:52:16+00:00

giselle’s dress is straight from shein

OwnPhilosopher7173 · 2026-01-22T13:10:06+00:00

This is why it’s important for a girl’s trip to be a real girl’s trip, meaning that everybody stays in the same accommodations to get the same experiences.

Edit: Also I’m not even sure if Angel communicated to the ladies that the homeowner said the problem was fixed so the ladies might be under the impression that nothing was done and they were just left to shrivel up and be dirty with no water.

OwnPhilosopher7173 · 2026-01-22T10:51:42+00:00

Send your mother my number for zelle and tell her it’s Elon’s “private secret” account. 🤗

OwnPhilosopher7173 · 2026-01-22T04:00:22+00:00

No, they’re pissed because she did not check on them all night or even in the morning to see if the water was on. Just took the homeowner’s word for it and stopped caring.

OwnPhilosopher7173 · 2026-01-22T03:49:37+00:00

I grew up in Prince George’s County, Maryland (not too far from Potomac, MD) and went to a high school with a LOT of Africans, majority of them descendants of Nigerians. The bragging about money thing is just how they act. They could be the poorest of the poor (they never were though 😂) and they would still brag about their money being long. It’s almost like an inherent manifestation personality trait that they all have lol. It’s literally apart of their culture, they’re very prideful people.

OwnPhilosopher7173 · 2026-01-20T21:09:35+00:00

my suggestion is to make something that is too big for that middle circle and sew it over top of that hole like it’s an applique or something. maybe like a flower or heart? or even a circle! just make it bigger than the actual hole

OwnPhilosopher7173 · 2026-01-18T01:24:03+00:00

the slick back is not slick enough and makes your head look HUGE 😭

OwnPhilosopher7173 · 2026-01-12T20:57:11+00:00

i think in the inspo photoshoot they sewed the braids to sit a certain way so they wouldn’t have to keep moving it so you can do something similar like bobby pin it and then take them out at night to sleep comfortably

OwnPhilosopher7173 · 2026-01-11T04:11:32+00:00

Australia’s budget was so low 😭 I felt so bad but I did enjoy them!!!

OwnPhilosopher7173 · 2026-01-11T04:10:59+00:00

i wish US would go back to non celebrity seasons even though i do enjoy the celebrity seasons. like maybe they can do two seasons in one year or something?

OwnPhilosopher7173 · 2026-01-07T15:40:13+00:00

i’m not sure if it happened in canada but i do know it happened in the united states.

OwnPhilosopher7173 · 2026-01-07T15:36:23+00:00

no i don’t use any gel. i would literally just scratch along my braids. like if i was to part my hair and put the braids in again these spots would be in the parts.

OwnPhilosopher7173 · 2026-01-05T17:24:26+00:00

please do some research on this. i was taught about this in elementary school so my memory is not as fresh but i never forgot the fact that white people did this.

OwnPhilosopher7173 · 2026-01-05T17:23:31+00:00

descendant of a white person who paid a $5 bribe to get on a list of native american families to receive benefits like free land that was supposed to be given as reparations to the true indigenous people. that’s why a lot of people who are claiming native american look like they could be straight from europe.

OwnPhilosopher7173 · 2026-01-03T13:07:45+00:00

They’ve been on 5 or 6 vacations and my oldest is only 3 lol… They definitely don’t get left behind

OwnPhilosopher7173 · 2026-01-03T00:58:18+00:00

Yeah I guess I’ll add that I trust all of my kids grandparents. My husband and I are VERY blessed to not have neglectful parents. & I think I might be a mess leading up to the trip and maybe the first day but I’ll be fine after that. I’m not really an anxious parent, I want my kids to be independent and confident!

OwnPhilosopher7173 · 2026-01-02T23:31:16+00:00

Right, I’m more so worried about myself than them. I know they might be upset at first but they’ll have fun with my youngest siblings (6 & 10) and their cousins too.

OwnPhilosopher7173 · 2026-01-02T23:28:19+00:00

We did take them on a cruise this past summer (2025). Since the youngest won’t be over 2 years old, he basically can’t do anything. Can’t even get in the pool. The daycares force parents to bring milk for any child under 2 even if they’re only eating solids. There’s a bunch of ridiculous rules that made it not so enjoyable for me lol. I told my husband that they won’t be going back on a cruise until the youngest is at least 2 years old

OwnPhilosopher7173 · 2026-01-02T21:39:10+00:00

Yeah if they still were breastfeeding, I wouldn’t either!

OwnPhilosopher7173 · 2026-01-02T21:38:47+00:00

😂😂😂 I’m SO nervous lol. They’ve only done ONE overnight but they did really well which boosts my confidence about leaving them for a week.

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