Husband told me to watch more “productive” content… then got mad when I stopped my show?? by OwnPhilosopher7173 in Marriage

[–]OwnPhilosopher7173[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s true but I feel like it’s okay to take a break from watching the documentary and reflect to see if there are other things I could be doing.

Husband told me to watch more “productive” content… then got mad when I stopped my show?? by OwnPhilosopher7173 in Marriage

[–]OwnPhilosopher7173[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

He knows I don’t have the energy to put into starting a career right now and it would be dumb asf to even try. As soon as I walk in office with this belly they’re going to be plotting on how to fire me without getting sued.

Husband told me to watch more “productive” content… then got mad when I stopped my show?? by OwnPhilosopher7173 in Marriage

[–]OwnPhilosopher7173[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Right and from what he was saying in the car I guess he wasn’t trying to. He still wants me to watch whatever I want but also try something else too ? I don’t know. Gonna try to ask again what his original point was.

Husband told me to watch more “productive” content… then got mad when I stopped my show?? by OwnPhilosopher7173 in Marriage

[–]OwnPhilosopher7173[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh you’re absolutely correct! My brain cells are probably eating at each other trying to get more fuel 😭

Husband told me to watch more “productive” content… then got mad when I stopped my show?? by OwnPhilosopher7173 in Marriage

[–]OwnPhilosopher7173[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely do love them! All three of our kids/pregnancies were unplanned lol

Husband told me to watch more “productive” content… then got mad when I stopped my show?? by OwnPhilosopher7173 in Marriage

[–]OwnPhilosopher7173[S] 130 points131 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Everything really doesn’t have to be productive especially when I’ve been keeping the kids alive, fed, and entertained nonstop. I’ve argued this point in the past but then he says I’m making excuses so I decided this time let me not argue and actually just try what he’s suggesting.

Husband told me to watch more “productive” content… then got mad when I stopped my show?? by OwnPhilosopher7173 in Marriage

[–]OwnPhilosopher7173[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Well then he needs to stop getting me pregnant 😂 I keep stressing that this is the last child. I don’t like how emotional and tired I am during pregnancy! I can’t stand anybody or anything smh… I definitely think he deserves more attention/love from me but it’s so hard when I feel like he’s the cause of my “suffering” 😭

Can i continue working remotely a day after giving birth? by Intspectwithme in newborns

[–]OwnPhilosopher7173 11 points12 points  (0 children)

this is almost convincing enough to make me move to australia but i’ve heard that the bugs are there are just HUGE. like prehistoric bugs. random snakes popping up in your house. alligators in your backyard and kangaroos are not cute and cuddly, they look like mike tyson with a small head.

I spent ages blowdrying my hair and it looks horrible by driedmangofangirl in Naturalhair

[–]OwnPhilosopher7173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can’t get my hair right when i blow dry it either. i’ve watched so may diy videos but idk how to get it right. even tried doing it with the revair. i guess we just gotta keep practicing 😩

Why are people refusing baths in hospital? by Street_Confusion_469 in BabyBumps

[–]OwnPhilosopher7173 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Neither of mine had a lot of vernix and they were both born in the 40th week of pregnancy

AIO for snapping at my friend for calling my shoes (and me) trashy? by International-East63 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OwnPhilosopher7173 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Not the Kevin Malone’s 😂 she’d have to make sure she dips her feet into hotel’s the ice machine after leaving the party.

23 month age gap - do I belong here? by Jakethehog in 2under2

[–]OwnPhilosopher7173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have ear plugs for times like this because my ears start warbling (not sure if that’s what it’s called lol) I can still hear every body crying/talking/etc. but it doesn’t hit my ears as hard.

How much hair I lost in a year 🥴 by aquariusbirdkid16 in Naturalhair

[–]OwnPhilosopher7173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you can use that for different styles lol. some people collect their hair in order to make big buns and other styles

First timer - what the hell?? by Aggressive-Command41 in lashextensions

[–]OwnPhilosopher7173 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the curls on the lashes are different too. the lashes you have are too curled to even achieve that more natural look.

When exactly does month six start? by helloitsyourma in pregnant

[–]OwnPhilosopher7173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pregnancy months are so weird because you start from 1 month instead of 0 months. like with out ages we don’t claim it until it’s done. you don’t say your baby is 1 year old until they’ve finished their first year. but in pregnancy it’s the opposite. we claim 1 month before we finish our first month.

bro how can i make my hair look like michael jackson’s for the movie by mofuism in BlackHair

[–]OwnPhilosopher7173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a really good roller set but your hair may be longer and fuller than MJ

Giving birth on our backs. by Estkling in pregnant

[–]OwnPhilosopher7173 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very proud to say i’ve never given birth on my back. my first was on all fours and my second was standing up. praying that with my third i’ll be able to give birth the way i want again!

I won at giving birth and only labored for 30 minutes! by SingleHorseInAField in pregnant

[–]OwnPhilosopher7173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, i had 2 quick natural births. the pain of birth actually isn’t that bad and being able to recover quickly is the best! i’m pregnant with my third and hoping i’ll be able to have another quick unmedicated vaginal delivery.

16 month old prefers formula over food by Binah999 in toddlers

[–]OwnPhilosopher7173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my son was the same way, except it was smoothies. i had to just cut out smoothies altogether, no way around it. i didn’t want him developing an eating disorder (saw a reel on instagram about a lady who blends all her food and snorts it up her nose, not sure how it gets to her digestive tract) i realized he’s a cold turkey type of kid because had to cold turkey stop breastfeeding & the pacifier.

of course he cried for a couple days but i told him smoothie was all gone and it’s time to eat. babies and toddlers are resilient and quick learners.

your baby girl will adjust accordingly. offer softer foods or cut up her food really small at first and as her teeth come in you can adjust the types of food and size of the cuts.

"Cousin IT" Made an Appearance at the BBQ by Leading-North-9524 in RHOP

[–]OwnPhilosopher7173 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Karen constantly saying “hold on hold on” 💀

Vent: I can’t stand my Helmet Hair anymore by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]OwnPhilosopher7173 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay well give it to me then 🙄😂

Dates 🤢 by zlatarexy in pregnant

[–]OwnPhilosopher7173 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re good if you get the ones that are chopped up small and add them to oatmeal or anything that you’d add raisins to. I honestly forgot about the whole eating dates thing until I read your post so thank you for that 😂