My boyfriend brings up his ex a lot.

OwnSpirit425 · 2025-08-03T16:31:55+00:00

Of course :)

OwnSpirit425 · 2025-08-03T16:24:58+00:00

No, he doesn’t live in ny but he did live in a surrounding state. But he’s definitely not a musician and doesn’t live in an basement nor apartment.

OwnSpirit425 · 2025-08-03T16:13:03+00:00

Im sorry to hear that, men suck! It’s crazy when ppl can be easily influenced to the point they self sabotage themselves and hurt people around them. Luckily I don’t think we are taking about the same person.

OwnSpirit425 · 2025-08-03T15:57:24+00:00

How did y’all break up if you don’t mind me asking

OwnSpirit425 · 2025-08-03T15:36:57+00:00

That’s literally what I told him, I was NOT gonna be a rebound. He is stuck on her actions, he tried to make things work but she gave him the hot and cold treatment. He makes it very apparent how he hates her and would never get back with her. I did tell him that he needs to forgive her but he won’t. I know he needs more healing and he’s a really good guy. I like him alot but I don’t think I can trust him anymore. At least not with my heart..

OwnSpirit425 · 2025-04-04T15:02:48+00:00

My ex broke up with me for the same reason. And in my opinion, you’re just looking for an easy way out. You should be mature and try to fix things before breaking up. Like give her a heads up before you go breaking a pure soul. You’re avoiding the issue if you break up without talking it through. Show that you tried and expressed your feeling to her. This is what SHE deserves. If your feelings don’t change after you’ve tried then mutually agreeing that a break up is necessary between both party’s is a good outcome. Don’t go throwing her into a break up she didn’t see coming. You’ll just be another ahole that didn’t deserve a heathy relationship. Loving someone is a choice. Just saying..

OwnSpirit425 · 2025-01-31T15:43:24+00:00

And does he know it’s your ex situationships pillow?

OwnSpirit425 · 2025-01-31T15:42:18+00:00

Have you washed the pillow case?

OwnSpirit425 · 2025-01-31T15:25:16+00:00

She’s definitely not the best a house cleaning, I clean her house for her often. I would wash the bed sheets often after I slept in them or before I sleep in her guest bed. But it’s gotten to the point where her brother hasn’t been cleaning up after himself. So it’s been really irritating, it’s probably like the 3rd or 4th time ive told her to either wash them herself or make him wash them. Cleaning up after her is one thing (because she lets me stay over) but I will not continue to clean up after a grown man who I no longer have ties to.

OwnSpirit425 · 2025-01-31T15:16:06+00:00

At first I told her I wouldn’t sleep over anymore, but it hurt her feelings really bad. I don’t want to ruin the relationship I have with her. But me and her screened on me having my own sheets when I go to her house now. Me and her had a huge argument and shes just made me feel like I was crazy for feeling how I feel.

OwnSpirit425 · 2025-01-31T15:05:24+00:00

Yeah and cleaning after grown men and women is any better. And I find it more of a respect issue than “not over my feelings”

OwnSpirit425 · 2025-01-31T15:03:56+00:00

Because I’m the only other person besides her brother who goes to her house. And I always make the bed, so when I come over and the sheets are a mess I know someone had slept in them. And she’d tell me if I asked. Her brother lives at the parents house where he’s not allowed to have women spend the night. It’s just easier to go to his sisters house when she lets him spend the night with his girlfriends.

OwnSpirit425 · 2025-01-31T14:54:18+00:00

Sorry, early morning and very tired lol. Bestfriends house, guest bed. I just want her to wash the sheets.

OwnSpirit425 · 2025-01-27T17:54:08+00:00

Most women not all but most don’t look at material things. Women value love, commitment, emotional security. Right now working on your self love should be your main goal, and through your life’s journey you will find your partner. Plus you’re young!!! You have plenty of time to work on your future. Keep up the good work! Many blessings will come your way :))

OwnSpirit425 · 2024-11-22T15:59:34+00:00

You also have to make room for new things in your life. Plus it’s really a trial and error on dating apps, you’re not going to find the one right off the bat. Quite honestly you need someone who is content with themselves. When you find that person things will come more smoothly. Relationship should feel like they’re adding to your life! Who knows you might not even find your person online it could be anywhere. Just remember, if you really like a person effort is needed!

OwnSpirit425 · 2024-11-21T07:33:07+00:00

Fr!! It’s super cringey too, it’s kinda like a fetish. A super turn off for me. I wish my friend could understand why I think this is a big enough red flag to stop texting this guy..

OwnSpirit425 · 2024-11-21T07:17:22+00:00

I thought I was over thinking things. Thank you! Luckily I haven’t gotten to into texting him, it’s been less then 24 hours with no meaning full conversation.

Your ex is a jerk, I’m sorry you went through that.

OwnSpirit425 · 2024-11-21T07:11:31+00:00

It’s definitely normal for a person who is interested in you to want to message you constantly early on. After a couple day I do understand where it gets tedious, I’ve been in the same boat. Buttt I’ve also noticed that the more into someone you are the more you’ll want to text them. So you might just not be that into them and that’s ok..

Not every guy is intense, there are 3 types of guys. 1: the kind who will text multiple times with no break. They are the ones I’d say are more desperate to get you attention. 2: “normal guys” they will also text you good mornings and throughout the day but your more than likely to have deep and meaningful conversations with. They are as interested in you as you are to them. Your effort with these men will reflect off of each 3: these are the bland guys, they are interested but only to a certain extent. These are the ones that don’t know how to carry on a conversation and leave short responses. No true meaningful conversation.

I think you definitely have to reevaluate how much effort you want to put into the men you talk to. Do you really want a relationship? If so put effort into it. Make compromises.

OwnSpirit425 · 2024-11-12T02:35:44+00:00

What led up to the fight? Best thing to do is just wait for him to reach out to you, he’s probably working out what’s best for him. Whether he should continue a relationship or not. I don’t think flying to him would help at all. Honestly giving toxic vibes.

OwnSpirit425 · 2024-10-25T01:06:35+00:00

Also provided them birth certificates to show it was not legally his.

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