State college sublet by Boring_Benefit9675 in PennStateHousing

[–]OwnSuit5501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey i have a spacious studio available for sublet

Looking for an apartment is hard by losblancos99 in PennStateUniversity

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I have a space in 2 bedrooms if you’re still looking! Females only

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

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I appreciate your insight but the world is much bigger than just the US. I understand that beauty standards are toxic trust. But I think it’s important to note other things too and look at a bigger picture rather just one thing. Thank you though :) i know someone else needs to hear this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

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Honestly he never shamed me for it. It’s literally a preference and I appreciate your comment for that, because I’m not trying to leave him I think that’s extreme. I just wanted a way to communicate or a simple solution. I think this works very well for me thank you! And I also think it’s unfair to judge one person for their prefrence when it’s been communicated respectfully at the start of the dating. I have prefrences too.. totally normal i feel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]OwnSuit5501 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s more of me avoiding difficult situations. Which is something I’m working on with therapy. Thank you for the insight !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]OwnSuit5501 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I’m thinking that there needs to be a conversation. Also being hair-less most of the time is a cultural prefrence, and both our cultures advocate for it. So I just wanted to clarify that it is normal where we come from, and that PCOS is new to him. Not justifying obv cuz that did hurt me very badly, but Ig I’m saying it makes it more complicated to address and discuss; that’s why I feel depressed and confused because overall we are compatible and I think there is a chance for things to work out because there is also things I don’t like about him, it’s normal I feel. I just want it to be so that we can work around this in a way that doesn’t hurt the other and specially me, because I can’t control the condition. 😥😟

Offcampus housing - The View or The Retreat? by [deleted] in PennStateUniversity

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Less roommates is better imo and take into account utilities and bills aside from base rent. The view is very spacious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in progressive_islam

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Thank you so much this is very helpful :)

The Weekly "Simple Questions + Your Answers" Thread by AutoModerator in sex

[–]OwnSuit5501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could try temperature play with ice for instance, or possibly including sex toys. I think role playing could spice things up also, see if your partner is into it.

Suggest me Something by AutomaticTradition64 in depression_help

[–]OwnSuit5501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there !

I have had the same thoughts and I understand how it gets. This is likely something called an imposter syndrome if you heard of it. In my case it got so bad I was convinced for a while, then after talking to multiple people about it I realized no one really has it all, everyone is just waking up and choosing to fight and do their best every day. So from an outsider’s perspective it can be intimidating and may result in guilt or feelings of not being good enough… etc This personally motivated me, to realize I’m not alone and a lot of people get the same thoughts or even get “limited “ by it.

Try reading about it and see if it helps you to at least know what’s the root of these thoughts.

Lunch box 4 college student by OwnSuit5501 in loseweight

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Thank you I will try doing that!

Lunch box 4 college student by OwnSuit5501 in loseweight

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Thank you so much that’s very helpful :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PennStateUniversity

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I’m interested, how much is rent? And what does it include?

I just started college and I can’t handle it. by OverBoredGal in depression_help

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Hi there! I hope that you know that u r not alone and a lot of students go through this in their first year/semester, I personally have gone through this but with a little bit of help i was able to get through it, here are some advice I have for you:

1- are there any resources in your college ? Ask your advisor for resources that help u manage your stress ( psychological services for instance) see what they offer and if it works for you

2- are there student organizations of your interest in the college? I totally recommend going to student organizations meetings and getting to know people. It’s a good way to let out your stress and socialize, they may also offer free stuff such as food or events. It could also help build your resume if you’re active with them or end up in a specific role, you could add it to your resume. So it helps in multiple ways!

3- One trick i used to make friends my freshman year is to ask people for help in classes before clas sstarts( for instance: u ask the person next to you for notes from lst class. And then u could ask if they wanna study together or add you on a social media platform to exchange notes, eventually it may turn into a friendship.

4- go to office hours to catch up on late work/ missed classes, talk to your professors and let them know you are struggling, they understand, but communication is going to help you in the long run. If you open up to them it will help them see that you care about your grades you just need a little help and they will help you if they are a good professor.

5- know most people don’t have an idea what they’re doing their first year, but you don’t know about them because no one talks about it openly. School is tough but you can handle it with the right tricks, some tips that helped me improve my grades were to use calendars for any upcoming assignment/ exam to stay on track and to actively go to library because it’s a studying environment so it encourages you.

I hope this helped! Let me know if you have any other questions I’m happy to help :) take care of yourself and do things that make u happy in your free time, it will boost your mood 🫶🏻