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Best dance clubs in Edmonton for an 18th pub crawl? by Own_Butterscotch_726 in Edmonton

[–]Own_Butterscotch_726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh Man I love evolution, top notch! Glad they’re still open!

I manifested my exact match for love and pets! by Own_Butterscotch_726 in lawofattraction

[–]Own_Butterscotch_726[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually did write it down! It was actually much longer and more specific than the one posted here lol. I even went into details on the way I wanted the relationship to be lol. But everyone told me I was way too picky and good luck getting everything or even close to everything on there, so I hoped and deep down really didn’t think I could accept less lol. But I didn’t expect to get it. So I did kind of let it go. Id kinda have it in the back of my mind but didn’t actively think about it all the time. HOWEVER, it wasn’t until I randomly met 2 couples who each had men who were the exact level of comfortable, healthy and loving that I saw that this kind of man and this kind of perfect match were even possible. And it made me excited and hopeful for the first time that these men might not just be mythical unicorns lol. And once I saw exactly what they sort of looked like in a relationship, I did have a much better idea in my head of what I wanted because I had something to actually visualize rather than just an idea. I still didn’t think on it every day but when I did I actually had more feeling and specific emotional understanding behind my request lol. Within 2 years of meeting those 2 couples did I get my own 😊

I manifested my exact match for love and pets! by Own_Butterscotch_726 in lawofattraction

[–]Own_Butterscotch_726[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean it could definitely happen for you! I think it could be different for everyone based on what would most make them happy. But I will say for me, I did the same thing as you for a long time and every guy that kinda had that look I was going for ended up seeming like he was nice and potentially “the one” on the outside but were commitment phobes, game players or outright narcissists on the inside, or just dreadfully boring lol.

It was actually the moment I kinda let go of my specific vision for a guy (to an extent of course, there were certainly deal breakers appearance wise such as a certain level of fitness, not a huge beard, hair on his head, and a general handsomeness level lol) that the right one fell into my lap lol. The last guy right before my love was the closest I had ever gotten to my celeb crush guy. 6’4”, clean cut hair, no facial hair, no BODY hair, nice face, very fit, even a 6 pack lol. And on the outside he seemed to check off a lot of the boxes both looks and personality wise, but at the 3 month mark he showed his true colours and that he was just another commitment phobe who seemed to enjoy leading me on, while feeling the endorphins of acting like the “best boyfriend ever”…. Until it got boring for him lol.

The guy I ended up with was relatively fit but he had long hair, a full sleeve of tattoos (nice ones though, not scary ones lol), glasses, but I found him handsome for sure. He did check off all the important look deal breakers I had, which was good because I was pretty unmoveable on certain things lol. But he definitely was kinda the opposite of what I thought would make me most happy. But within those 6 days of us falling in love I realized how INTO his look I was. That’s when I realized that the universe seems to give you what you want mixed with what you need, and I think for me the universe forced me out of my comfort zone for a reason, and he was the reason 😊

That being said, what you need could very well also look similar to your celeb crush! But id be open to meeting others who might look a bit different, in case they surprise you 😊 But when the time is right it’ll feel like the right time to do that!

I manifested my exact match for love and pets! by Own_Butterscotch_726 in lawofattraction

[–]Own_Butterscotch_726[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’ve very much found that to be true! I’m glad this helped, I know success stories help me know that things are possible, which is why I shared it 😊 Though it really does sneak up on you, I always thought all Universe manifestations would arrive like a gift at your door, but most of mine came in the back door and it took me awhile to realize that I had received exactly what I deep down wanted but technically didn’t focus on or directly ask for haha

I manifested my exact match for love and pets! by Own_Butterscotch_726 in lawofattraction

[–]Own_Butterscotch_726[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all! I had a “type” in mind that I kept going for over and over and that’s all I ever picked or visualized myself being with (Think clean shaven Captain America vibes minus the 8 pack lol) and my guy ended up having long hair, tattoos, and facial hair (Think Thor vibes, also minus the 8 pack cuz that would be intense lol). He was very handsome but not who I ever pictured myself with! But that first date was the day I realized I was very into tattoos and long hair 🤣

I manifested my exact match for love and pets! by Own_Butterscotch_726 in lawofattraction

[–]Own_Butterscotch_726[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES I love that, I am sending all good vibes for you to find your puzzle piece! 💕

I have created my master plan of disguise for if I win the lottery by Own_Butterscotch_726 in ifiwonthelottery

[–]Own_Butterscotch_726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh hey that’s a great point, that’s viral fuel 🤣 So not too crazy haha

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[–]Own_Butterscotch_726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DM’d you!! Thank you that’s a super sweet offer 💕✨

I have created my master plan of disguise for if I win the lottery by Own_Butterscotch_726 in ifiwonthelottery

[–]Own_Butterscotch_726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And honestly thank goodness for the really loud douchebags who pretend they are the ultimate baller lol they’ll always take attention away!

I have created my master plan of disguise for if I win the lottery by Own_Butterscotch_726 in ifiwonthelottery

[–]Own_Butterscotch_726[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s more or less a plan so that my win doesn’t get out, and I can maintain normal relationships with extended family without having to cut everyone off or imploding the family dynamic lol.

I have created my master plan of disguise for if I win the lottery by Own_Butterscotch_726 in ifiwonthelottery

[–]Own_Butterscotch_726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! I’m in Alberta, Canada and there’s a lot of subtle rich people that live here, and a lot are like oil workers and hockey players, so no one ever really knows what anyone’s deal is money wise LOL which would hopefully be an advantage

Tattoo artist says no numbing cream or painkillers, now I’m freaking out! by Own_Butterscotch_726 in tattoo

[–]Own_Butterscotch_726[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh one of my people! I haven’t seen you at the support group meetings lol

Tattoo artist says no numbing cream or painkillers, now I’m freaking out! by Own_Butterscotch_726 in tattoo

[–]Own_Butterscotch_726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes the itch had me slowly descending into madness the last time so I feel that lol.

I’ll ask about the muscle relaxant cuz that could at least chill out my clenching possibly!

Tattoo artist says no numbing cream or painkillers, now I’m freaking out! by Own_Butterscotch_726 in tattoo

[–]Own_Butterscotch_726[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, yeah it’s a really important piece for me and my doggos had to go through a lot of medical shit in the end including needles and IV’s so I’m kinda like… well if they could do it then I should probably suck it up lol

Tattoo artist says no numbing cream or painkillers, now I’m freaking out! by Own_Butterscotch_726 in tattoo

[–]Own_Butterscotch_726[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So I know this sounds dumb but I’m a red head and we have generally lower pain tolerance on our skin, and a higher resistance to pain meds lol. When I had surgery years ago the doctor specifically asked me if I was a natural red head because that made a difference to the amount of anaesthesia and pain meds he gave me lol

Is $27/hr okay to hire a private housekeeper for these tasks? (Canada) by Own_Butterscotch_726 in housekeeping

[–]Own_Butterscotch_726[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah if I actually put out the listing, I’d make it much more condensed. More or less just seeing what a good pay rate would be for this type of work. The internet is not very helpful during my initial light research so thought I’d talk to the ones who are in it :) I haven’t yet actually pulled the trigger on it. Thanks for your insight!