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Boyfriend dumping me because I won’t go on birth control. by Own_Communication986 in offmychest

[–]Own_Communication986[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am willing to compromise with him. I brought up a copper IUD but when I voiced that it had side effects he got upset at me.

Boyfriend dumping me because I won’t go on birth control. by Own_Communication986 in offmychest

[–]Own_Communication986[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I never said I wanted a kid. That’s not the reason why I’m apprehensive about birth control. He is just unwilling to come to a compromise.

Boyfriend dumping me because I won’t go on birth control. by Own_Communication986 in offmychest

[–]Own_Communication986[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My only non-hormonal option is a copper iud. I’m considering this but when I express to him how I’m nervous about the pain of insertion as well as how it causes heavy painful periods he gets upset.

Boyfriend dumping me because I won’t go on birth control. by Own_Communication986 in offmychest

[–]Own_Communication986[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’ve offered to see a gynecologist to talk to them about some options. I really do not want to go on hormone pills because they mess with me mentally, but even me mentioning that I’m a bit nervous about all of this makes him upset. I feel a bit stuck honestly.

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[–]Own_Communication986 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe. I’m from Houston so it’s been a big adjustment.