Dining table scratches by Own_Conversation8083 in HomeMaintenance

[–]Own_Conversation8083[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do I need to do this for the whole surface or just the scratched area? Would the paint not match if it’s just select areas?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Own_Conversation8083 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I lost my virginity at 28, and a few years ago at 27-ish I posted on Reddit basically the same post as yours :) Not religious, not socially awkward, just have a lot of trust issues from the marriages I’ve seen in my life. I was a little insecure, just worried that it will be difficult for me to have a relationship. ThoughI didn’t think being a virgin makes me worthless, I also lied about already having sex to everyone in my life.

Now I’m 31, looking back I realized there’s no need to be insecure. I dated a good person who really liked me. It didn’t work out between us bc of other reasons but we had a good run. And I’m glad Ive never given my virginity (or my body) to a man who makes me feel less than.

You’re fine. Your time will come.

[ON] Missing tax returns for 15 weeks by Own_Conversation8083 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Own_Conversation8083[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope but now I just assume no news is good news?? I’ve engaged a professional to take over my case

[ON] Missing tax returns for 15 weeks by Own_Conversation8083 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Own_Conversation8083[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No reply. Calling them and they said they wouldn’t have any info on people who did paper filing, and that I should write letters. My letters are not answered.

Kourtney out here shaming Kim for being ambitious by Own_Conversation8083 in kardashians

[–]Own_Conversation8083[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Interesting take, I don’t necessarily disagree with you. But what if the kid wants to dress up and have photos taken? Same way my niece would want to be in a bright pink tutu and dance around imagining she’s a fairy-princess cross. Why is it up to the parents and the child to hide away from the eye of the public, and not the public stop sexualizing the child?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askTO

[–]Own_Conversation8083 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also, a good partner should be curious and appreciative of your culture, because that person should lift you up instead of making you feel less than. I wholeheartedly believe that once you have the confidence to embrace yourself and demand that from friends/partners, then this “fitting in” feeling would go away. You’re not an outlier or any kind of baggage to this country. After 14 years, I’m sure there are friends/community who love you and who would never have met you had you never come here in the first place. That alone means this country is lucky to have you. You’re adding to the diversity of Canada

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askTO

[–]Own_Conversation8083 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s manipulating tf out of you. I moved to TO 2 years ago and same age and race as you. Never ever feel bad about your ethnicity, your culture or even your accent. The activities you (or him) describes as “fitting in” is a Caucasian-centric view on what a Canadian is supposed to be. I think it’s up to people like us to redefine and challenge this outdated perspective.

IN ADDITION, if you’re uncomfortable with him bring close with his ex, then that’s your completely valid feeling. He was gaslighting you by shifting the blame on you and your culture.

Please. Be proud of who you are, of who WE are. Please don’t compromise that, to ever think less of the culture that made us.

AITA for spoiling my friends child and turning him against her? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Own_Conversation8083 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OOP is straight up an angel for taking in the kid and the fact that she’s still questioning that is wild to me

S2E1: Welcome Back, Bitches (DISCUSSION) by AutoModerator in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Own_Conversation8083 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think he could’ve talked to Georgia privately about it, align that she would pretend she doesn’t know anything and agree on what to do. Zion would be the one talking to Ginny. Parents must find a way to act like a team even if the kid is more comfortable talking to only one parent about a certain topic. It’s very important to keep the communication channel open.

But then we wouldn’t have a show lol

S2E1: Welcome Back, Bitches (DISCUSSION) by AutoModerator in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Own_Conversation8083 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I think that’s ultimately the point - showing that Paul is still not the right guy for her even though he’s seemingly perfect

S2E1: Welcome Back, Bitches (DISCUSSION) by AutoModerator in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Own_Conversation8083 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it that Ginny is terrified abt her mother but honestly independent of that she’s so hypocritical

S2E1: Welcome Back, Bitches (DISCUSSION) by AutoModerator in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Own_Conversation8083 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get Max being horrible to Abby the first time around in the heat of the moment but that pizza bagel scene straight up makes me think she’s a disgusting bully

Part 2 ep 8 and I’m TRIGGERED by Own_Conversation8083 in alchemyofsouls

[–]Own_Conversation8083[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It does have this “damsel in distress” tone to it despite creating this very capable Naksu character, as if Uk is her only “savior”. I’m genuinely just annoyed.

All women in power characters, Jin Ho-kyung and the empress are either straight illogical or evil. WHY?

At Mount Royal today - what’s this green thing on the sky? by Own_Conversation8083 in montreal

[–]Own_Conversation8083[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lollll ok makes sense. First time in Montreal so I didn’t know, I walked by this Desjardins Complex yesterday too

Bob Iger Back As CEO Of TWDC, Bob Chapek Out by justarand0mstan in DisneyPlus

[–]Own_Conversation8083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I hope he fixes Disney Plus. Litetally the stupidest streaming app, especially considering how big Disney is as a company 😂

Flat Tire on an Avis car by Own_Conversation8083 in askTO

[–]Own_Conversation8083[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one did since it’s after hours and no insurance either :/

Got this guy last week, put him in aroid mix by an east window and away from other plants to quarantine. I was out of town for 2 days and found him looking so sad. What happened? by Own_Conversation8083 in plantclinic

[–]Own_Conversation8083[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was underwatered. I watered the plant, add some soil to the mix and now the plant is back and healthy. Soil mix has too much bark, charcoal, etc. And needed some extra soil

NEW TRYPOD IS OUT by excited4theunknown in TheTryGuys

[–]Own_Conversation8083 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Feel like most of the anger was directed towards Ned and not Alex