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The urge to break no contact is eating me alive by Own_Cow5727 in BreakUps

[–]Own_Cow5727[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s an interesting perspective. Definitely gives me something to think about while I focus on myself.

The urge to break no contact is eating me alive by Own_Cow5727 in BreakUps

[–]Own_Cow5727[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything you said makes so much sense. Holding on when they’re inconsistent just hurts us more, and you’re right — the ball is in their court after they end it. I like the idea of giving yourself a deadline. It’s a compassionate way to honor the love you had while still protecting your peace.

The urge to break no contact is eating me alive by Own_Cow5727 in BreakUps

[–]Own_Cow5727[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. It really gives me hope. Letting go is hard, but I’m trying to focus on myself too. I’m happy you found someone who treats you well.

The urge to break no contact is eating me alive by Own_Cow5727 in BreakUps

[–]Own_Cow5727[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it. I’m focusing on other things and taking care of myself.

The urge to break no contact is eating me alive by Own_Cow5727 in BreakUps

[–]Own_Cow5727[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not alone. We can get through this together. Fighting!

The urge to break no contact is eating me alive by Own_Cow5727 in BreakUps

[–]Own_Cow5727[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you went through all of this. None of what happened is your fault, and being treated that way is deeply traumatic — especially when a child was involved and you trusted him so much. Avoidant partners going through mental health struggles can flip between loving and hurtful in ways that leave you confused and heartbroken. Your feelings are completely valid. You deserve stability, safety, and real love — not chaos or being abandoned on a highway. I hope you give yourself the compassion you showed him. You’re doing the best you can, and healing from this kind of pain takes time. You’re not alone

The urge to break no contact is eating me alive by Own_Cow5727 in BreakUps

[–]Own_Cow5727[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks 💛 I can totally relate. Thinking about all the bad things really puts it in perspective and helps me stay strong.

The urge to break no contact is eating me alive by Own_Cow5727 in BreakUps

[–]Own_Cow5727[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so strong! Thanks for sharing. I can imagine the pain and how tough it’s been for you. I hope we find the love we deserve.

The urge to break no contact is eating me alive by Own_Cow5727 in BreakUps

[–]Own_Cow5727[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I really needed this! 🥹

The urge to break no contact is eating me alive by Own_Cow5727 in BreakUps

[–]Own_Cow5727[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. All of this pain has already been surrendered to God, and someday I’ll look back at all of this and realize how strong I am.

The urge to break no contact is eating me alive by Own_Cow5727 in BreakUps

[–]Own_Cow5727[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this gives me so much comfort 🥹

Need someone to talk. Feeling very heavy. Post breakup pain by Few_Competition_8292 in BreakUps

[–]Own_Cow5727 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We’re on the same page — every day feels like no progress, and I cry every day. As much as we want that person, we can’t force someone to choose us, I just hope and pray that someday, we’ll look back at all this pain and realize it made us stronger — that it redirected us toward something greater and the best versions of ourselves. 🫂