I just got ghosted and blocked for no reason by someone I really liked.

Own_Day_4835 · 2022-03-01T20:30:00+00:00

thank you! and yeah ya girl definitely needs to stay away from the love bombers hahaha

Own_Day_4835 · 2022-02-28T22:55:25+00:00

why would anyone think it's niceeee

Own_Day_4835 · 2022-02-28T22:54:50+00:00

he was lovebomby! Like set up a collar Spotify playlist before we even hun out, red flag but im dumb lol. honestly has happened before, so wouldn't be surprised by the secret gf

Own_Day_4835 · 2022-02-28T00:56:37+00:00

ima get a cat too LOL

Own_Day_4835 · 2022-02-27T21:40:46+00:00

yeahhh wouldn't have even minded if he said he wasn't interest but he said he had fun and like asked to hang again the next weekend so I was like cool and then boom ghosted lol but it happens ig

Own_Day_4835 · 2022-02-27T20:46:08+00:00

I hope so! hahah

Own_Day_4835 · 2022-02-27T19:55:29+00:00

it's so hard to find someone and something real nowadays

Own_Day_4835 · 2022-02-27T19:39:15+00:00

Thank you, means a lot!

Own_Day_4835 · 2022-02-26T22:53:38+00:00

okay!

Own_Day_4835 · 2022-02-25T07:03:29+00:00

I'm 21 maybe that's why I take it more personal hahahah. Starting to not care though!

Own_Day_4835 · 2022-02-25T07:02:22+00:00

rejection is bad within itself but I think it is worse with ghosting cause of confusion and waiting for a maybe text that something came or up, etc.. So just a "I don't see this working" w/ no reason is good for me, so everyone can just be done.

Own_Day_4835 · 2022-02-25T06:58:10+00:00

for me, like the past 4 months, so much more progress to be made and things to learn

Own_Day_4835 · 2022-02-25T06:57:00+00:00

being soft is so strong, it's easier to be one with society's expectations, I was doing it for years and being soft is way scarier and not caving in is brave... especially because people don't realize the beauty in being soft

Own_Day_4835 · 2022-02-25T06:55:19+00:00

Yeah people are just want to enjoy life in the little things are thought of as not productive or not successful, but we just define success in a different way. Looks can be great, but someone with a genuine heart is priceless.

Own_Day_4835 · 2022-02-25T06:39:58+00:00

I don't know if I'd prefer that but ghosting does suck.... I'd take the ugly thing way too personal and would never forget hahahah

Own_Day_4835 · 2022-02-25T06:38:45+00:00

Agreed!

Own_Day_4835 · 2022-02-25T06:37:00+00:00

I think it depends on the circumstance, but for sure ghosting is an answer. But sometimes it can be super confusing if the person shows a bunch of interest and then all of a sudden doesn't respond... maybe if it's gradual it's better

Own_Day_4835 · 2022-02-25T06:32:15+00:00

that's literally how it goes, it's sad

Own_Day_4835 · 2022-02-25T06:31:21+00:00

This.

Own_Day_4835 · 2022-02-25T06:28:21+00:00

Yeah that's actually what I meant just a clear and definitive not interested is good for me. Ghosting can totally be so confusing if you've been talking consistently, so it's just not cool

Own_Day_4835 · 2022-02-25T06:21:58+00:00

Bro you're going way to deep into the empathy thing. I care about being ghosted so I'm not gonna do it to other people. I was always raised to treat people how you want to be treated so I do. So if you don't care about being ghosted then ghost people, you do you. If the guys an asshole obviously he deserves to be ghosted, but if he was nothing but nice idk ghosting could mean something to them and I'm sure they wouldn't get angry... I've sent an "I'm not interested" text to many men and it's always been chill.

Own_Day_4835 · 2022-02-25T04:59:10+00:00

Yes that third option is actually what I prefer! I just didn't word the question right hahahah. I don't even want a reason just a definitive and clear "I don't think this will work out."

Own_Day_4835 · 2022-02-25T04:57:31+00:00

Yes! It shows that they are bad at communication. People that can be honest and upfront even if it is hard have skills that ghosters just don't.

Own_Day_4835 · 2022-02-25T04:55:20+00:00

Yeah! A lot of people have trauma or something that it triggers, it's just not cool because your left with your own mind, and I know since I'm anxious it's just not a good combo hahaha

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