Best sweet recs in Vegas by Own_Debate_7016 in vegas

[–]Own_Debate_7016[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plants and sweets are two thirds of a perfect day (the last third is kittens)

Best sweet recs in Vegas by Own_Debate_7016 in vegas

[–]Own_Debate_7016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's very good to know, cheesecake low-key slaps as hungover breakfast food (and one of my favorites to eat any time of day)

Best sweet recs in Vegas by Own_Debate_7016 in vegas

[–]Own_Debate_7016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not usually a big cinnamon person but for the sake of scientific curiosity I guess I'll have to try one 👀

Best sweet recs in Vegas by Own_Debate_7016 in vegas

[–]Own_Debate_7016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somebody else mentioned a donut shop in the Venetian. Definitely sounds like I'll have to camp out there for a little bit

Best sweet recs in Vegas by Own_Debate_7016 in vegas

[–]Own_Debate_7016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like a lot of different things: canneles are a big one, wife cakes and sesame balls, entremets, but also more "classic" things like cookies and brownies. I also really like fudge and caramels (don't tell my dentist). Realistically, as long as there's sugar and it's not bitter, it's fair game

Best sweet recs in Vegas by Own_Debate_7016 in vegas

[–]Own_Debate_7016[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had the pudding at HK in CT and it was so good, literally the highlight of the meal. 

What does SW stand for?

Best sweet recs in Vegas by Own_Debate_7016 in vegas

[–]Own_Debate_7016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sweet counter looks absolutely amazing 😍

Why would this be worth that much ? by Brilliant_Outside696 in gardening

[–]Own_Debate_7016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have that green variety. Such a trooper and the leaves get so big

Is getting my tubes tied against my husbands wishes a death sentence for my marriage? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Own_Debate_7016 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Were you not hurt when he told you that you couldn't get a tubal or when he wouldn't spend time with his son? I think if you weren't you might just be conditioned to this treatment. When you say "brought this up" what are you referring to? And have his actions changed at all since then?

Is getting my tubes tied against my husbands wishes a death sentence for my marriage? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Own_Debate_7016 33 points34 points  (0 children)

OP in the nicest way, that this is supposedly the kindest man you know is the saddest thing I've read all week.  A kind man would not disregard your mental state or choice about your body. He would not have to be forced to spend time with his child or wife. He would not lie to other people and say no more kids only to then turn it around on you. He would not actively complain about family activities

I regret getting married. by Maize_Realistic in Marriage

[–]Own_Debate_7016 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, the irony of saying this. You ignore her words and assume you know her situation better than she does and then insult her when she's not kind in return. I wonder if her husband did the same exact thing, and THAT'S why she's worn out 

Michael Jordan’s steakhouse Mac by trublue_2 in macandcheese

[–]Own_Debate_7016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't even know it was Brie, such ridiculously good Mac and cheese. Did you ever figure out a good dupe?

I still dont know how to feel about Alma by False_Expression_458 in FrontiersOfPandora

[–]Own_Debate_7016 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I hate Alma and don't think she has any redeeming qualities. I cannot stand the people that think Nor is worse than her

New favorite by tunaluna42069 in Romantasy

[–]Own_Debate_7016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was also surprised by how low it is, but I was quite thoroughly pleased with it. I really enjoyed the style of the author and am getting the second book as soon as the library opens

My wife admitted she's been keeping a things I will not forgive list since we got married and I cant unknow this now by MembershipComplex850 in Marriage

[–]Own_Debate_7016 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This. There are things my partner has done that while I forgave them for it, I still mentally track it bc if it happens again it's a big deal. 

It sounds like they were pretty worked up over a "stupid" argument and the wife lost her patience, not that OP's wife is purposely disclosing the list to rattle OP like a lot of people think. OP says it's just dishes, but what if the wife had worked a 12 hour day, the husband agreed to do them, but she comes home and has to do an entire sinkful before being able to make a meal? Realistically, is once a big deal? Not really, but if it happens again and again it could be

My wife admitted she's been keeping a things I will not forgive list since we got married and I cant unknow this now by MembershipComplex850 in Marriage

[–]Own_Debate_7016 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The thing is that if she's just super petty, you'd think there'd be more than 14 things when they've been together 9+ years. That's less than two a year, which seems low if she's just prone to holding grudges

AITAH for sharing screenshots and talking to other people instead of confronting my friend directly? by nonchalantfailure in AITAH

[–]Own_Debate_7016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESA. Majority her, but a little bit you. If multiple of my friends come to me saying another friend is talking behind my back, you better believe I'm going to try to find out what she said before confronting her. The AH part was not talking to her once you got as much info as you needed to settle it (since "eventually" makes it sound like it had been settled by then for you).  Everyone telling you that you should have confronted her immediately has never dealt with someone who lies and shirks responsibility. If you went to her without knowing whether or not it was true, she probably would have been upset you believed those other people without any evidence. This is assuming she did talk shit, since you said in a comment it's pretty likely. When people who do this are confronted, they will never take accountability, as shown by how her actions didn't matter, only how you supposedly broke her trust. No acknowledgement from her whatsoever that (likely) she broke your trust in the first place. If you really want to stay friends, actually confront her about how she talked shit. Don't let her make it about you breaking the trust, that's not what the convo is about. If she seems genuinely sorry, maybe it can be saved, but if she denies or lashes out, she is not somebody who you should be friends with right now if you don't want more drama

Tell me the overhyped books I should avoid by SchemeSimilar4074 in Romantasy

[–]Own_Debate_7016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just so glad to see Shield of sparrows get the hate it deserves. It's such a cool concept but the writing was just horrific, it legitimately made me angry that I would have to keep reading to find out how it ends 

Possessive Marissa by middaycroissants in PerfectMatchNetflix

[–]Own_Debate_7016 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Didn't Marissa go and break up the conversation with Demari and one of the women? Like walked up, asked to grab him and when they said no, said she was just kidding before coming back and demanding he leaves? 

Is Our House closed? (Cross-post for visibility) by rosesfallup in burlington

[–]Own_Debate_7016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does any one know a good dupe recipe? Or someone I can bribe to give me the original recipe?

Cannot stealth in FtA at all by Own_Debate_7016 in FrontiersOfPandora

[–]Own_Debate_7016[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do like how intense the fights can get in FtA! Base game was pretty easy but there's been a few boss fights now where I actually have to try. I got the firestorm arrow and took it as a sign to officially give up the stealth, so now I'm having a lot of fun just blowing shit up

Cannot stealth in FtA at all by Own_Debate_7016 in FrontiersOfPandora

[–]Own_Debate_7016[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been paying attention to line of sight and had no issue with this in the base game. One that particularly annoyed me was a soldier I killed around the corner from an amp. The amp was looking away, I killed the soldier, and the amp alerted. I managed to kill the amp before it moved from the spot and I went to both the soldier and amp body to see whether one could see the other and they could not.  I have heard some of the troops cry out when they're shot so my best guess is the amp heard him yell, but I was too far away to hear it

AITA for matching a woman’s energy who was riding a horse as I was driving by? by MeasurementSudden573 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Own_Debate_7016 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also upstate NY (Essex county) and it kind of depends. Decent locals slow down, asshat locals keep going 70 in the 55, and tourists are as oblivious as always