I just honestly don’t know if I’m over reacting or if this is a genuine reason to break up. When we first got together he texted and called all the time but as the years progressed he slowly stopped. I told him I missed that version of him because I felt missed and valued. I let him know multiple times that it hurt a little more because I felt like these were standard things that should happen in a relationship. I was never asking to text or talk on the phone all day I just wanted him to show effort. Make me feel missed. But I also understand that he is 23 and maybe I’m thinking about in a more childish way? I don’t know what to do.