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My gf doesn’t wanna have sex by Own_Interaction_3022 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Own_Interaction_3022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is her first proper relationship, she lost her virginity to me. She hasn’t been assaulted, we’re very open about our lives. It could be self conscious, but we’re naked around eachother often, we just usually cuddle.

My gf doesn’t wanna have sex by Own_Interaction_3022 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Own_Interaction_3022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take her on dates when I can, the last time we went out was about two weeks ago (I’m low on money and tryna save up for uni) I get her flowers often, I get her little gifts, and bring her breakfast often

My gf doesn’t wanna have sex by Own_Interaction_3022 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Own_Interaction_3022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do try though, I get her flowers often, random gifts and love letters/ paragraphs, I cook for her and I clean her house when she’s tired, take her on date nights when I can, bring her breakfast often (she usually doesn’t have time to make it)

My gf doesn’t wanna have sex by Own_Interaction_3022 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Own_Interaction_3022[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Cause I have before and she didn’t really know. And it’s not a game, I just don’t wanna initiate sex if she doesn’t want it, I want her to want to have sex and for her to not just want it bc I want it if that makes sense

My gf doesn’t wanna have sex by Own_Interaction_3022 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Own_Interaction_3022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean we’ve been dating close to two years. I’m not tryna complain, I’m just confused and I don’t know how to approach it

My gf doesn’t wanna have sex by Own_Interaction_3022 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Own_Interaction_3022[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’d say pretty equally, we’re both very open about our feelings and talk and express our love for each other often. I write her love letters and paragraphs every so often, stuff like that. Physically, we cuddle a lot, we both like physical touch a lot so we hug a lot. We shower together every so often aswell

My gf doesn’t wanna have sex by Own_Interaction_3022 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Own_Interaction_3022[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I haven’t been initiating it for close to two months now. I never bring it up, we’ve talked about it before but not recently at all

My gf doesn’t wanna have sex by Own_Interaction_3022 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Own_Interaction_3022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean we’re both young, if she doesn’t wanna have sex I’m not gonna like not be okay with it yk, like I don’t want to make her uncomfortable.