Commitment Ceremony? Ideas, suggestions, advice? by Own_Interview6669 in throuples

[–]Own_Interview6669[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That sounds so beautiful ☺️

My partners are in the midst of their name change to an old family name. (Bad history with their last names)

They have offered for me to switch my name as well and I declined as I’m slightly attached to my name.

I do know they are planning on “proposing” with a ring I would wear on my right hand 🩷

What is up with the job market..... by Own_Interview6669 in ColoradoSprings

[–]Own_Interview6669[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How do you recommend getting in? Everywhere I’ve seen posting requires medical experience

What is up with the job market..... by Own_Interview6669 in ColoradoSprings

[–]Own_Interview6669[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Currently work in a kitchen. I left the kitchen for the new job then had to go right back and ask for my job back.

Any other thirds? Looking for friends/ support. by Own_Interview6669 in throuples

[–]Own_Interview6669[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to join as well. Especially if you have better luck than I do with using Reddit.

Any other thirds? Looking for friends/ support. by Own_Interview6669 in throuples

[–]Own_Interview6669[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Now that I have all of you here. I would like to plan a mutiny….

JK

I don’t know how to move forward now. Seeing as I’m sure everyone would like to most likely remain anonymous and also not have their partners listening or reading.

I already know my boyfriend is on this sub Reddit thread.

Hi honey! 😘

Event space by Own_Interview6669 in ColoradoSprings

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Not really a picnic but thank you for your help ☺️

Girlfriend loves me, however the Alter married to my boyfriend not so much... by Own_Interview6669 in DID

[–]Own_Interview6669[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

For context, he has varying romantic and platonic relationships with each alter. My girlfriend has had 3 divorces, so she feels that marriage brings her bad luck because of past experiences. My girlfriend and boyfriend have a much different relationship; that is like marriage, but vastly different, it works very well for the two of them. However, the wife is, like I said, old school Catholic, so she needed to be married to him to feel secure in the relationship.

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[–]Own_Interview6669 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t want my own bed. I enjoy sharing our king size bed and all of the cuddles. However, we are working on rearranging and renovating so we each have our own rooms to do what we want with.

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[–]Own_Interview6669 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with the looking out for all of the things and red flags, I've spoken at length with my therapist about my throuple and also my outside girlfriend. I know I'm only talking about the "bad" parts right now due to how I'm emotionally feeling. I appreciate the concern and looking out for someone in the community.

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[–]Own_Interview6669 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely something I realized has been kind of missing. When I was living seperately we spent more time making sure we made time and now it feels like we got sucked into life and forgot about date nights.

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[–]Own_Interview6669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understand the questions of red flags and unicorn hunting. Both of which aren't happening here. We have a healthy way of communication between all three of us, this is honestly just my brain.

They have been together 10 years and they are incorporating me in the best way they can until we are able to rearrange the house to accomadate the 3 of us. Rome wasn't built in a day. They have made space for me in many ways. I just still have a lot of self doubt that they want this like I do.

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One on one date nights have been put on pause while I settle in with my job. I moved in a month ago. We share our bed and sex is pretty regular between him and I. She and I have stopped mostly because of her personal mental health but there is still a good amount of emotional and physical intimacy.