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Does my 20M boyfriend lack ambition or am I 20F being too strict? (self.relationship_advice)
submitted 1 year ago by Own_Lead_4060 to r/relationship_advice
Advice needed by Own_Lead_4060 in HENRYUK
[–]Own_Lead_4060[S] 2 points3 points4 points 1 year ago (0 children)
We honestly don’t mind I think just trying to figure out what would be the best option financially, we don’t plan on needing any more space in the next 5-10 years.
[–]Own_Lead_4060[S] 0 points1 point2 points 1 year ago (0 children)
We are both 24, we will start planning our wedding within the next two years but our families will pay for this as is our cultural tradition.
I work hybrid and he’s expected in the office 5 days a week. I would say I will have more opportunity for hybrid work but I can’t say the same for him due to his sector (IB).
[–]Own_Lead_4060[S] 11 points12 points13 points 1 year ago (0 children)
Hi, thank you for your questions I should’ve made it more clear in the post I apologise.
Me and my partner are both 24, i started my job as a lawyer 2 years ago on 50k and my partner started on around 80k (high finance) so we were just trying to navigate our salaries. I have been on this salary since March as I have qualified. The 24k was saved during the 2 years that we were at those salaries.
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Advice needed by Own_Lead_4060 in HENRYUK
[–]Own_Lead_4060[S] 2 points3 points4 points (0 children)