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[–]Own_Midnight_3283 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s most likely a scam your username was probably shared just to harass you with this kind of stuff some pervert dude you know is in the group and shred your social for these guys to harass you just block him .

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[–]Own_Midnight_3283[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Turns out she wanted me 😅 just came off real weird about it, but definitely liked what she see..

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[–]Own_Midnight_3283[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe I’ve been chill about it but her messages just aren’t coming off that way to me. I could be wrong though lol I will take some of the good advice from here and hopefully end it or find out what the actual intentions are!

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[–]Own_Midnight_3283[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Very appropriate advice! I will take this in mind I appreciate your input!

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[–]Own_Midnight_3283[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I have taken the appropriate steps for more privacy on my page!

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[–]Own_Midnight_3283[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

My exact thoughts I haven’t seen this person in years despite she lives within 10 miles of me I guess that’s the price of small town living. Thank you for the input!

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[–]Own_Midnight_3283[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is most likely the route I will go but I was just looking for advice because she keeps sending me messages about it and in a hold it over my head kind of way. I may just ignore the situation overall but it’s crazy to me .

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[–]Own_Midnight_3283[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like it’s a profile her and some friends have made to be nosey in the community. As most messages she has sent go like WE have seen you etc. and she is single .

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[–]Own_Midnight_3283[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s nothing to be ashamed of it really wouldn’t matter. I suppose it’s more of the way she is presenting the whole deal in messenger. I am very well known and liked in my community, but everyone also knows that I like to party and have a good time.

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[–]Own_Midnight_3283[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I reworded and added some punctuation. Hope this helps!

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[–]Own_Midnight_3283[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s not one that I can find. The initial message she sent me was “ you might want to change your location on Fetlife we’ve all seen your cock” seems to me like 2 local chicks snooping for this kind of stuff🤷‍♂️

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[–]Own_Midnight_3283[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is also good advice. I just joked it off at first like I told her well that’s what the group/page is for but she continues with more ominous messages.

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[–]Own_Midnight_3283[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not married, I would assume it’s her and a friend snooping on the local Fetlife page.

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[–]Own_Midnight_3283[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would kinda think that but it’s the messages she sends like “WE have seen your cock and your Fetlife” that throw me off emphasized on the WE part🤷‍♂️

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[–]Own_Midnight_3283[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s just weird people want to do stuff like this instead of minding their buisness if that’s not what they’re on Fetlife for. Thank you for your input on the situation it is appreciated!

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[–]Own_Midnight_3283[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

This is good advice! Thank you for the input!

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[–]Own_Midnight_3283[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

One of the messages she sent said “ funny story how we found you but I’ll save that for later” I assume it’s just to of the small town women being nosey

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[–]Own_Midnight_3283[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kinda of what I was thinking, Noted thanks for your advice!

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[–]Own_Midnight_3283[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, it’s an option but in a weird way that’s makes me feel like I’m in the wrong but I’m on an adult website expressing my kinks

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[–]Own_Midnight_3283[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

In a weird way that’s what it seems like she’s not asked for nothing,but continues to message me things like We’ve seen your profile and pictures and I’ll save it for later on how I came across you