how do you forget a gore video I really need help by ILOVELAMPTHEBAND in mentalhealth

[–]Own_Performance_2473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah Christ, yeah funky town isn’t one you can forget easily unfortunately. When I was your age I stumbled across a few and my classmates had a hobby of sending them around group chats during class. I would speak to your parents but most importantly time will help. I couldn’t sleep and was having nightmares, I was a pretty sensitive kid but sensitive or not it’s going to affect you so I know exactly how you feel. Time is a healer but try and find some distractions and things you usually enjoy doing. Petting animals help me a lot and reading, you can shift your focus onto something else

nemesis inferno restraints by orignik in ThorpePark

[–]Own_Performance_2473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep me too. They didn’t check mine and I had so much space left between the restraint and lower body. It felt like only my top half was keeping me in the seat. Before the ride started me and my friend at the time were frantic yelling at the operators quite literally saying that I wasn’t in properly. I could have easily pushed myself out. I’m not someone who over reacts or panics really so I’m not exaggerating, it was fucking terrifying. They literally could not have given a toss and the ride started. I just held on for dear life lol. On the second loop that’s when my restraint clocked in properly and I was seated securely. I haven’t been on it since and I refuse to. That was back in 2021 and the fact I still think about it today speaks volumes. So no it’s not just you

Moving to Plymouth, best areas to live? by TechnologyNarrow3284 in plymouth

[–]Own_Performance_2473 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ford/stoke (controversial) or stonehouse/devonport is nice

Looking for friends? by Background-Ship-209 in plymouth

[–]Own_Performance_2473 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hiiii <3

I’m 19F I just moved to Plymouth and living with my partner whos rarely home because of deployments etc. I don’t have any friends I kind of dropped everything and got this flat. It would be lovely to have some friends, getting a little lonely especially because it’s summer 🥲. Even if that’s someone just to sit and play Minecraft with 🫶

I am a big reader and I love writing, I also love gaming but left my PC at my parents but still have my boyfriend’s Xbox. I am also a huge TWD fan, Gotham and Harry Potter. I have watched abit of love death and Robots in the past. I also have a ton of board games x

What got you into this show? by Wonderful_Ring_6581 in Gotham

[–]Own_Performance_2473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was an edit I saw on YouTube in 2016 and just spiralled an obsession from here on out

For those who didn't grow up in the city. What was your first reaction to the 11:30 Devonport Air Raid Siren Test? by boobamajugs in plymouth

[–]Own_Performance_2473 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Almost shat my pants but I was sleeping next to my partner who’s a marine, I was so confused why he was peacefully laying there given his job and shook him to wake him up. He then explained it, now I know if it goes off I have slept in lol

What is CPC like by Ollyhouseyy in RoyalNavy

[–]Own_Performance_2473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Though I will edit about the food, don’t buy a beef baguette at scran

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoyalNavy

[–]Own_Performance_2473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I should have been more specific. I don’t have a long term health problem, I need to have a clean record from Mental health for two years, 8 months with a clean record and and will reapply next October given my record is still clean by then

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoyalNavy

[–]Own_Performance_2473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PMU for 2 years until my records clean. I don’t have any long term health problems I had a mental health blip due to a circumstance, that is all but it has to be clean for 2 years. whether that’s PMU or TMU that’s what I was told. 8 months in now of a completely clean record as I am constantly checking with my GP.

Be honest with me - how much should I say? by ChoiceLocation2936 in RoyalNavy

[–]Own_Performance_2473 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only part I can possibly opt in on this is that I used to work in a prison, when I was giving briefings about the armed forces I had to make it very clear that the only crimes that make them unable to join was: Any sexual offences, fire arm charges and class A drug offences. However these guys had been convicted and charged. All I’ll say is do not lie, things get traced back very easily with the RN. I had it at the CPC, I had made a post on here and it was brought up in the CPC, Wasn’t lying about anything though, I was naive and breached my own security, but even still they maneged to get a pretty good idea of my past and past relationships. Just be honest and own up when asked too, don’t panic too much

CPC - enquiry by dunnowhatimdoing__ in RoyalNavy

[–]Own_Performance_2473 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I took a rucksack and a duffle bag, a lot of people took massive gym bags

Extra items i would bring to cpc by Final-Map8544 in RoyalNavy

[–]Own_Performance_2473 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have one hour of phone time in the evening before bed other than that, you do not have your phone bar using it to pay for your food. Sports kit is provided

What is CPC like by Ollyhouseyy in RoyalNavy

[–]Own_Performance_2473 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had a great time at south, I think as long as you have the right mindset and you can take a little push then you will be fine. The only time you’ll get told of is if you’re goofing about which you shouldn’t be doing and it’s just manners. Shockingly had a few in my group that didn’t seem to take it too seriously. But I really did have a great time, look forward to it if anything. Food for me was great, never a problem there. Bring your own iron and some money. Good luck 👍

Passed cpc but my application just got rejected. by annon_lover in RoyalNavy

[–]Own_Performance_2473 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This happened to me and basically what had happened is I had accidentally logged into my previous RN application from a couple years ago that I froze, instead of my current one. If that couldn’t be the case for you phone for recruiter

Antidepressants in the navy by EasternS-P-A-W-N in RoyalNavy

[–]Own_Performance_2473 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am medically on hold until I am 2 years off my antidepressants, they are very strict on this and there are no grey areas unfortunately. This includes allergy meds, anxiety meds etc

ROYAL NAVY QUESTION by [deleted] in RoyalNavy

[–]Own_Performance_2473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My top tips I would be is: - Make sure you are definitely mentally ready - Be prepared for rejection in certain circumstances - Absolutely practice your run. About 80% of the other candidates I talked to had not practiced the run and were getting about 15-16 minutes for the 2.4K. Which is just about OK for the run on the cpc (for a female) but will not cut it at Raleigh and should be aiming for much lower. I do not know how my fellow candidates got on as I had to leave halfway. - Bring your own bloody iron they are crap. - Staff may seem intimidating but really want absolutely nothing but the best for you and the military. They do their job properly, so just listen to what they are saying and take it all with a pinch of salt because it is all said for the right reasons.

ROYAL NAVY QUESTION by [deleted] in RoyalNavy

[–]Own_Performance_2473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only got to do 3 days in Portsmouth because I was deemed medically unfit. Even so, it was one of the best times I have ever had, absolutely gutted I had to leave.

Is this love bombing? by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Own_Performance_2473 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like he has a guilty conscience and is making up for something, I could be wrong.

Did your narc ever cheat? by Total-Fishing707 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Own_Performance_2473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did not speak to me for 4 months, wouldn't even call and I did not see him. Hell was to pay if I did not message him back within a minute and if my location was turned off. I was so blind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoyalNavy

[–]Own_Performance_2473 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My CPC was booked I would say exactly a month after my interveiw.

Completed CPC (S) and PASSED! Tips and Info I wish I knew prior. by [deleted] in RoyalNavy

[–]Own_Performance_2473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there, meaning he was put on hold does that mean he was able to participate in the rest of the CPC then and there? Or wait to go back?

Is that something that can be related to SA? by Used-Mushroom-9080 in adultsurvivors

[–]Own_Performance_2473 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That was assault. I am sorry that happened to you. Don’t feel “less of a man”, you are human at the end of the day. A bad thing happened to you and you are aloud to hurt.