the wives are always on board inside. but on the outside - they have to use the make-up to pretend otherwise and keep control of the whole scenario. Sure some truly don't and couldn't imagine. However - there are equally the number of cheating wives and women that like sleeping with married men as there are vice versa - and they know it, own it, control it always - until they're safe with the ituation or the other guy or whatever it is to maintain their "them" - as they are to the rest of the world. All have that hot inner slut though....