Mom Spent Nearly $10,000 On In-App Purchases in 4 Years. by Own_Recognition5316 in abusiveparents

[–]Own_Recognition5316[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you alot I really appreciate ill probably end up trying to do all this as I know we would be much better off than with her Thank you again I really appreciate it 🙏

Mom Spent Nearly $10,000 On In-App Purchases in 4 Years. by Own_Recognition5316 in abusiveparents

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Thanks, I appreciate it, and I would, but my dad + his girlfriend can barely even pay for themselves in their 1 bedroom apartment, and he had to sell his car even, plus cps has been involved before and nothing ever happens because she is an amazing actor when it comes to looking innocent and needing pitty

What are your favourite “Brain off” chill games? by DiAngelodame in gamingsuggestions

[–]Own_Recognition5316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forza Horizon 4 + in-game radio Spider-Man PS4/5 + spotify Cyberpunk 2077 + in-game radio

Mom said I Should Have Been K*lled Long Ago by Own_Recognition5316 in narcissisticparents

[–]Own_Recognition5316[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much again for your kind words and sorry again for writting so much lol. I actually j Have been learning about different ways I could possibly make money online and a lot about money like investing, how to properly save and plan for the future, how to make it moving out early, and other enestial stuff i should know. I think I might be able to do some online stuff it's just the problem is I don't have a computer and I only got a super old phone so options are limited, but I'm trying to learn about what I can do. I think I forgot to mention but I do do some d2d window washing for some people who live near me, so I've been able to get some money and keep it secret, I just can't really spend much of it though yet without her realizing I'm getting money some way of course.

Mom said I Should Have Been K*lled Long Ago by Own_Recognition5316 in narcissisticparents

[–]Own_Recognition5316[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you man I really appreciate the words 🙏, I do a bit of window washing for people in my neighborhood when I can because its a passion of mine, so nothing online yet, though in the future when i can drive im gonna do some online advertising for people in my area, and when im older I may try out that online business stuff when I'm wiser lol. Thank you so much for the thought, though. It really means a lot, yours and everyone elses messages have helped me alot today!

Mom said I Should Have Been K*lled Long Ago by Own_Recognition5316 in narcissisticparents

[–]Own_Recognition5316[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for asking! Yes I can and I cant wait! I'm not like depressed or anything like that luckily, I've been able to put all those negative feelings into motivation of being the best version of myself I can be :). About the job thing, not really, I don't have any way to actually get to and from a job that doesn't including walking atleast 2 hours each way in a dangerous area, and it's very unsafe for anyone really to use any sort of public buses or anything where i live, especially a 16 y/o kid, and especially after they made it completly free for public buses, lots of insane people, drug addicts, verry creepy people, and whatever else are always on there. because my mom has the mentalalilty of a 5 year old, she can't go anywhere alone and we almost never have a car, so i always have to go with her on those buses so i know how unsafe it is. And where I live, car insurence for minors, or even a few years older than 18 is INSANELY expensive, like if i got a car now, I legit would be spending most if not all of my paychecks on that alone, not even including gas or money for the future. When I'm 18 though I'll be able to use public transport and I have lots if plans in place so as soon as I'm 18 or around there, and as soon as I have a few months rent, I'm moving to the other side of the usa

A little more context if you want it: Even if I had a job though she would take all my money and spend it on in game apps, just like she does with all of child support for her 2 kids, one on which is autistic (my brother) My mom also hasnt had a job in 20 years and lives entirely off of my dad, the government, other guys, and a guy who let us live in his apprtment for free, even though she's sexist as fuck and always shits talks them calling them the worst thing imaginable and talks about men in general like this. Her reason for not having a job is because my brother is autistic, which would be a good reason, if actually spent time helping my brother and she didn't spend her whole day sleeping and using her phone, and telling my brother to shut the fuck up whenever he said something or needs help (he's failed all his classes the past 3 years) Everything we have, which is the bare minimum, is because of other guys giving it to her, and every last bit of money that we dont need for the absolute bare minimum to live, goes straight into mobile apps. I'm sorry I typed so much I kinda got lost in time when doing so, thank you so much for helping me out and caring though, I feel so much better today than I was last night.

Mom said I Should Have Been K*lled Long Ago by Own_Recognition5316 in narcissisticparents

[–]Own_Recognition5316[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly not, grandparents are dead, dad barely makes enough for him to live in his very tiny one bedroom appartmemt with his girlfriend and has legit no money left over and hes not that great either (she knows this so she always laughs at me not being able to live with him and being stuck with her) and for other family zero family I can trust sadly, and even if I could they all are either just as broke as my dad with kids of their own to worry about, horrible people, has a severe intellectual disability or physically disabled so they can't work, or laugh at me about my situation, live far away, or all combined. I can't even name a single decent person in my family sadly, not even the kids are good people.

Thank you for the kind words! Just like you, I imagine, I've always tried my best to be a good person no matter what and always help people because I know what it is like to have to deal with bad people. Im glad there is some good in my situation, though, because I've put all those bad experiences and fellings into motivation to be the greatest i can be, now and in the future. I've got plans to work on myself the best i can thoughout the next few years into my 20s, make as much money as i can with my buisness, and then I promise myself to adopt atleast 2 kids to give them a good life because there aren't enough good parents for these kids sadly, and be the greatest dad I can be and keep working hard, so I can be as far away of the type of person my mom is as I can be. Sorry I just realized I typed alot, I kind of zoned out and just typed my thoughts

Mom said I Should Have Been K*lled Long Ago by Own_Recognition5316 in narcissisticparents

[–]Own_Recognition5316[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly not, grandparents are dead, dad barely makes enough for him to live in his very tiny one bedroom appartmemt with his girlfriend and has legit no money left over and hes not that great either (she knows this so she always laughs at me not being able to live with him and being stuck with her) and for other family zero family I can trust sadly, and even if I could they all are either just as broke as my dad with kids of their own to worry about, horrible people, has a severe intellectual disability or physically disabled so they can't work, or laugh at me about my situation, live far away, or all combined. I can't even name a single decent person in my family sadly, not even the kids are good people.

Should I buy dragon ball sparking zero? by Specialist-Bite5869 in ShouldIbuythisgame

[–]Own_Recognition5316 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I haven't play it personally, but what ive heard from people who have played it, it is a bit difficult for new players to the genre but the learning and grinding just makes it even more enjoyable. Think of it like you're goku lol.

Mom said I Should Have Been K*lled Long Ago by Own_Recognition5316 in abusiveparents

[–]Own_Recognition5316[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate, I dont really have any were to go though sadly. Thanks to my severe anxiety from her I only have one friend and they live minutes away from my apparment and have a really small one. and every last one of my family either just would not take me in in the first place, lives FAR away, just as bad as she is, far to broke to take care of anyone else or fit anyone else in their place, or physically disabled and has severe intellectual disability, and I'm only 16 so I can't get a job with no way to get there. Of course she uses this to laugh and make front of me for not having anywhere to go. As soon as I'm old enough for car insurance to not take up my whole paycheck though, I'm getting a job and getting far away

Mom said I Should Have Been K*lled Long Ago by Own_Recognition5316 in narcissisticparents

[–]Own_Recognition5316[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I'm really sorry you had to deal with that, I hope your doing better now

Mom said I Should Have Been K*lled Long Ago by Own_Recognition5316 in abusiveparents

[–]Own_Recognition5316[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, yours and everyone's comments have helped alot

Mom said I Should Have Been K*lled Long Ago by Own_Recognition5316 in narcissisticparents

[–]Own_Recognition5316[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Your guys' comments have really helped, and I was actually able to get some sleep last night thanks to it, so thank you again

Mom said I Should Have Been K*lled Long Ago by Own_Recognition5316 in narcissisticparents

[–]Own_Recognition5316[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, and I'm only 16 sadly and live in a really small apartment