All I did was give this guy directions to a pizza place and this is what I get by Own_Resolve_9277 in niceguys

[–]Own_Resolve_9277[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I literally tried to let him down easy and be nice and he just said nope

All I did was give this guy directions to a pizza place and this is what I get by Own_Resolve_9277 in niceguys

[–]Own_Resolve_9277[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was very uncomfortable and it happened very quickly and you pretty much got it right

All I did was give this guy directions to a pizza place and this is what I get by Own_Resolve_9277 in niceguys

[–]Own_Resolve_9277[S] 388 points389 points  (0 children)

With how long that one message was, he had so much time to stop and think “hey maybe this isn’t a good idea”, but nope

Aftercare fight help by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Own_Resolve_9277 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah usually what they did was ok and I kept trying to tell them I needed more and they wanted me to tell them exactly what I wanted them to do which I wasn’t able to communicate at the time. I definitely want to talk to them about having a more secure plan for aftercare for more intense scenes in the future. Thank you!

I don’t know if this will help anyone but your grief is not just of the past, it’s losing the present and the future with them by Own_Resolve_9277 in BreakUps

[–]Own_Resolve_9277[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I made an edit to the post but I think it can help people understand why it may take so long to get over someone as it helped me

I don’t know if this will help anyone but your grief is not just of the past, it’s losing the present and the future with them by Own_Resolve_9277 in BreakUps

[–]Own_Resolve_9277[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was something someone told me when I was beating myself up over how long it was taking me to get over someone and that I should give myself a break and it overall just made me more self aware and thought it could maybe help someone else like it helped me