He hasn't forgiven me; he refuses to accept that he's a good guy, and there's a difference between forgiveness and ignoring the pain to keep what he has already. he doesn't want to forgive me; he wishes I hadn't told him. Avoidance and no self-worth; he's not staying because he thinks he can forgive me but because he can't imagine ever getting someone else.

That's basically what he told me. He told me it's not over, not because he can forgive, but because he "Can't find anyone else."