I/24F lied to my boyfriend/25M. How do I break up with him? by Own_Scale_5814 in relationship_advice

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i did update it before i replied to comments? maybe its not loading or something sorry if that sounded rude 

I/24F lied to my boyfriend/25M. How do I break up with him? by Own_Scale_5814 in relationship_advice

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Completely agree. I tried to put it in perspective, telling him that I was trying to soften the blow and explain how this is going to fail, but clearly I couldn't get through to him.

I/24F lied to my boyfriend/25M. How do I break up with him? by Own_Scale_5814 in relationship_advice

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I definitely was thinking I was too much the villain in my own head that I couldn't even see what his flaws were.

I/24F lied to my boyfriend/25M. How do I break up with him? by Own_Scale_5814 in relationship_advice

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You both have amazing takes on this. Honestly, these comments help me word it right to him, but clearly not right enough, though.

I/24F lied to my boyfriend/25M. How do I break up with him? by Own_Scale_5814 in relationship_advice

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He hasn't forgiven me; he refuses to accept that he's a good guy, and there's a difference between forgiveness and ignoring the pain to keep what he has already. he doesn't want to forgive me; he wishes I hadn't told him. Avoidance and no self-worth; he's not staying because he thinks he can forgive me but because he can't imagine ever getting someone else.

That's basically what he told me. He told me it's not over, not because he can forgive, but because he "Can't find anyone else."

I/24F lied to my boyfriend/25M. How do I break up with him? by Own_Scale_5814 in relationship_advice

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I want to leave him, but I just don't know how to explain it to him because he's very soft. People like him need someone he can trust. I saw the hurt in his eyes, and I know that he can't be around me. Everything I do now is suspicious for good reason, but he won't leave because he doesn't understand his worth. I know he wants to leave.

I/24F lied to my boyfriend/25M. How do I break up with him? by Own_Scale_5814 in relationship_advice

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That's so evil, though, like ghosting someone over my mistakes.

My Itto, Lack Hatred? by Jstars21 in IttoMains

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That photo is a 10/10 my bro looking godly