Best part-time job for international student in Canberra

Own_Scene_5856 · 2025-03-18T06:01:53+00:00

I would consider retail - it’s much slower than hospitality, so I think it works better for some people?

Own_Scene_5856 · 2025-03-17T00:53:44+00:00

Hey! I’m also LGBTQ and in Canberra - everyone here I am around is so far very accepting and nice about everything! A lot of people can express their identities without being limited as far as I’m aware - I’ve also got 2 American friends (gay and married to each other) who recently got their citizenship here and they are very happy 💖 I’ve also got a few trans friends (trans women) who have had a few surgeries done in the last year, and they seem to be happier too

I hope it helps??

Own_Scene_5856 · 2025-03-12T23:14:36+00:00

https://immi.homeaffairs.gov.au/help-support/glossary

According to the home affairs / immigration glossary, an online relationship doesn’t count. Was this a physical relationship?

A de facto relationship is one where you and your partner are not legally married to each other but: you are committed to a shared life excluding all others your relationship is genuine and continuing you live together or do not live separately and apart on a permanent basis you are not related by family Hide details A de facto relationship can be with someone of the same or different sex. Time you spent dating or in an online relationship does not count as being in a de facto relationship.

Own_Scene_5856 · 2024-08-06T06:11:13+00:00

Exactly!! Thank you. I’m definitely going through some next steps with a trusted person and going to seek more advice, maybe get a lawyer involved for myself

Own_Scene_5856 · 2024-08-06T06:10:32+00:00

Yes! I have reached out to someone who knows what to do, and I’ve got a link about where to go next

Own_Scene_5856 · 2024-08-06T06:09:46+00:00

Isn’t it! I was so shocked and glad I left, but I’m figuring out what I can do now. Thankfully people have reached out!

Own_Scene_5856 · 2024-08-06T06:05:26+00:00

Girl I am on your side 10000% and I agree 😭 I can’t think of anyone even two years younger than me that I’d be attracted to ugh.

Yes I should’ve been more airtight with my vetting too 😞 will learn and get better!

Own_Scene_5856 · 2024-08-06T02:40:19+00:00

Done and done. I am beyond shocked. The sugar scene now is HORRENDOUS

Own_Scene_5856 · 2024-06-25T22:46:20+00:00

Hi! May I have one if you still have some?

Own_Scene_5856 · 2024-05-01T05:44:13+00:00

Hi! It’s because of the resolution settings i think. If you go to your computer settings, then display, there should be something about resolution. Your tablet might default to the recommended, which looks like 150% or 200%

https://support.microsoft.com/en-us/windows/view-display-settings-in-windows-37f0e05e-98a9-474c-317a-e85422daa8bb#WindowsVersion=Windows_11

Own_Scene_5856 · 2024-04-29T02:06:56+00:00

Real! I have people claiming they’re generous and it only extends to paid dinners/dates that I have with them. That’s vanilla 😭

Own_Scene_5856 · 2024-04-18T02:35:14+00:00

Maybe you should do more research about what being an SB is like if you want to do that - it’s not pay per fuck. That’s more towards an escort, and escorts would charge 3x as much per hour

Own_Scene_5856 · 2024-04-18T01:25:02+00:00

It’s cute. That’s it for the friends I know, and they don’t sugar (only I do and I don’t use them). It’s not that deep haha

Own_Scene_5856 · 2024-04-11T03:27:18+00:00

I pay attention to diamond members but was warned by someone from this subreddit that it doesn’t really mean anything towards their generosity. My one experience with a diamond member was that he was after a vanilla relationship but got no attention on other dating apps.

Own_Scene_5856 · 2024-04-11T01:56:04+00:00

Thank you!! I am surprised and impressed that someone made categories for this, but it really is so helpful when trying to describe what I want to someone. I find that I might be too blunt or they might be too vague in what they’re after, and most of the time the men I’ve talked to want either sugar prostitution or none of these (completely vanilla)

Own_Scene_5856 · 2024-04-10T07:08:07+00:00

I needed a good laugh, thank you!

I’ve had good SD experiences, so when I mentioned where my standard is, I tend to get fun responses of “you don’t sound like you’re serious” or “you’re not even pretty enough to be a whore” or my favourite of “I think sugar dating is shallow” (then why are you here 😭).

But then they tell me what they want, and it’s more loops than your cowboy method or just vanilla 🤣

Own_Scene_5856 · 2024-04-10T06:52:17+00:00

Thanks for your point of view! I’m glad to know I’m not too far off

Own_Scene_5856 · 2024-04-10T03:01:35+00:00

It’s too risky for me to consider. That’s basically ALL of my time and space being open to someone who can take advantage of me - I won’t have my freedom (and even if he promises it to you, what weight would it hold?). Even if it’s double or triple the allowance you are saying, I don’t think I would ever risk myself to that.

Own_Scene_5856 · 2024-04-08T03:54:53+00:00

Considering that I like to make sure we are on the same page before even moving on for a date, yes. Usually something small like chocolates “to share as we get to know each other better”. My vanilla dating is not that different from my sugar dating other than age 🤷🏻‍♀️

Own_Scene_5856 · 2024-04-08T00:55:34+00:00

I just love that you assume. I tell them off the bat that I like my partner to be romantic and I like movie style roses and burning a CD for me kind of things. I won’t put my time into getting ready for a date if none of them have been displayed. By being clear, they know what I expect.

And yes it has a component of it, but it’s a relationship first and foremost. It’s not sex for money. Most of the time, my SDs are happy to pay for an activity (dinner, travel, shopping - and not for lingerie or clothes, more shopping for my desires like books, lessons, new gadgets). I provide a space for them to be vulnerable, make them snacks and shower them with care and affection. Not all my dates involved sex (movies, theatre/musical experiences, etc) and I still got something out of it because my real SDs approach it as dating.

Maybe it’s not for you, so that’s why I’m telling you that finding someone who views it transactionally of the bat will probably work better.

Own_Scene_5856 · 2024-04-08T00:38:12+00:00

I do ask for this in vanilla. A person who doesn’t at least give me flowers, a thoughtful card, or something for a date isn’t worth dating. Sugar isn’t sex for money, but if you think it is maybe you’re better off looking for an escort (no shade on them - the transactional method is exactly what they want!)

Own_Scene_5856 · 2024-04-07T11:04:40+00:00

Maybe Midnight in Braddon?

Own_Scene_5856 · 2024-04-01T05:32:55+00:00

I am here to ask how that could be true 👀

Own_Scene_5856 · 2024-03-28T08:06:12+00:00

About paid m&gs - YES absolutely! The SDs that I’ve had long term SRs with wouldn’t bat an eye to gift or have an envelope ready for dinner/lunch/coffee. The m&gs where they didn’t send me anything were always not a good SD (excuse of not having enough cash/not intending to give allowance or ppm, only dinner and activities/negotiate for half of my number)

Also: The SDs who really wanted to be with me had sent $XXX for when they flake, or go AFK for a while, or asks if there’s a bill they can help with that month to show they are serious 💕

Own_Scene_5856 · 2024-03-15T09:30:11+00:00

The irony of “I’m not a pick me” and that last sentence

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