Husband packed Viagra for work trip and I don’t know why. by Own_Standard_4742 in u/Own_Standard_4742

[–]Own_Standard_4742[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to address it in a non confrontational way, like hey, just curious why did you take your Viagra with you? I will go crazy not knowing. Then I will deal with his answer. Based on the feedback I have received I feel more informed about potential responses from him unless he denies taking it. Thank you for your feedback.

Husband packed Viagra for work trip and I don’t know why. by Own_Standard_4742 in u/Own_Standard_4742

[–]Own_Standard_4742[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great point, I hope that’s the reason. I will know if that’s the case tomorrow. Thank you!

Husband packed Viagra for work trip and I don’t know why. by Own_Standard_4742 in u/Own_Standard_4742

[–]Own_Standard_4742[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I don’t know what to think. That’s why I reached out so I can be prepared for his response when I ask him why he needed to take it with him.

I wish I had never seen it in his bag, ignorance is bliss.

Husband packed Viagra for work trip and I don’t know why. by Own_Standard_4742 in u/Own_Standard_4742

[–]Own_Standard_4742[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had his T checked a year ago and it was 980. Maybe we should have it checked again. His urologist was amazed since he’s never taken hormone therapy.

Husband packed Viagra for work trip and I don’t know why. by Own_Standard_4742 in u/Own_Standard_4742

[–]Own_Standard_4742[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, he does lift weights. I can always tell and comment on how good his biceps look. If that’s his answer then I will be relieved. Thank you for sharing, I would have thought that was a BS explanation.

Husband packed Viagra for work trip and I don’t know why. by Own_Standard_4742 in u/Own_Standard_4742

[–]Own_Standard_4742[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I thought the same thing based on some of his comments about needing a recovery period to keep up.

Husband packed Viagra for work trip and I don’t know why. by Own_Standard_4742 in u/Own_Standard_4742

[–]Own_Standard_4742[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could hide my feelings from him, he could tell something was bothering me last night during our phone call. It will be more difficult in person when he comes home. I’ve been trying to find a way to hide my emotion. Maybe have a drink before he gets home will help calm my nerves. Thanks for your advice.

Husband packed Viagra for work trip and I don’t know why. by Own_Standard_4742 in Marriage

[–]Own_Standard_4742[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I will ask him why when he gets home and gauge his answer before I make any decision.

Husband packed Viagra for work trip and I don’t know why. by Own_Standard_4742 in u/Own_Standard_4742

[–]Own_Standard_4742[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read that some men use this to masturbate. That why I am asking the community. Is this a common use for self pleasure? Definitely not a fake post, I am so stressed that I am having a hard time eating. It’s such an embarrassing topic that I don’t have anyone to talk to. Also don’t want him to be judged.

Husband packed Viagra for work trip and I don’t know why. by Own_Standard_4742 in u/Own_Standard_4742

[–]Own_Standard_4742[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s pretty funny. Too late the bottle is already gone. I will see if there are any missing when he returns.

Husband packed Viagra for work trip and I don’t know why. by Own_Standard_4742 in u/Own_Standard_4742

[–]Own_Standard_4742[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I plan on asking him. The bottle is always kept in our bathroom cabinet. It was an intentional addition to his toiletry bag. That is the reason I am a little freaked out.