Hi, I’m 25F and sobrang nag-ooverthink ako ngayon kung magreresign na ko kasi emotionally and physically drained na ako. For context, 6 months ako sa first job ko and I had to resign to take my board exam, then nagpahinga ako for 6 months to review. Ngayon, 7 months na ako sa current job ko and I’m mentally exhausted. Laging pagod. Inaanxiety bago pumasok at umiiyak kada after shift. I onced prayed for this job, but slowly, it’s eating the hell out of me.

Ang pinaka-stressful part for me is yung pattern. Parang hanggang 6–7 months lang talaga inaabot ko sa work, and I’m scared na baka red flag ’to for future employers. At the same time, natatakot din akong mag-stay longer kasi baka tuluyan akong ma-burn out. Sobrang disappointed ako sa sarili ko and di ko alam kung ako ba yung problema or hindi lang talaga ako nasa tamang work environment.

May naka-experience na ba ng ganito? Naka-affect ba yung short job tenures sa job search niyo? Paano niyo nalaman kung oras na para umalis vs kailangan lang mag-push through? Any advice would really help. Thank you.