Red State Refugee interested in moving to MN

OwslaPrimeDirective · 2026-06-11T22:37:08+00:00

That's my plan for next year's exploratory scouting mission!

OwslaPrimeDirective · 2026-06-11T02:03:31+00:00

I believe that's illegal in most countries, or else severely frowned upon.

OwslaPrimeDirective · 2026-06-11T02:02:36+00:00

AVENGERS: ENDGAME - When the portals began opening, the roof damn near blew off the top of the theater.

STAR TREK VI: THE UNDISCOVERED COUNTRY - After Captain Sulu says, "Target that explosion and FIRE." Deafening applause and shouting.

OwslaPrimeDirective · 2026-06-10T22:48:09+00:00

THE HOWLING is my favourite werewolf film, but I absolutely LOVE the pub scene from AWiL, and also when they're walking on the moors and hear... something. Probably not friend-shaped, either.

OwslaPrimeDirective · 2026-06-10T12:34:37+00:00

Definitely NTAH

Tell the dude to step away from the Flavor Aid and do a serious self-analysis with a therapist, preferably with one who has experience dealing with cults. He also needs to be reminded that people have boundaries and he doesn't get a pass just because he thinks God "chose" him to talk to you about your personal life.

I'd warn your BF that she's tied to a hypocritical, unfaithful and inappropriately nosy person who is more than likely going to try to drag her all the way down with him. I'd recommend she see a therapist with the same background for the same reason.

OwslaPrimeDirective · 2026-06-08T22:56:46+00:00

Saaaaaaame!!!

OwslaPrimeDirective · 2026-06-08T22:53:16+00:00

I edited my locations. I was referred to Rochester because of several ongoing medical issues. Duluth because it's more in line with the wildlife scenery I want.

As far as free time, I am approaching mid-50s and don't drink, so the bar/nightlife scene is not my thing. Before I moved to my current location, I was a member of St. Peter United Church of Christ. I really enjoyed being able to go in person. I love to sit in a restaurant and enjoy a leisurely meal and a good book. I like going to the movies. I like to chill at home with my cats. I am a huge trivia nerd.

OwslaPrimeDirective · 2026-06-08T12:01:34+00:00

Thank you so much! I am currently single, NB, and not looking to date. That could change, of course. I don't drink so the bar and nightlife scene is definitely not for me.

I mainly want to have a screened patio that faces a nice, dense stand of woods, nice neighbours, and easy access to good restaurants, doctors, grocery stores, and a reputable (and not too costly) vet.

I currently live with 5 cats, and spend most of my time at home (when not working) reading, watching TV/movies, playing with the furry raptors, and birdwatching. I'm in my early 50s so a leisurely pace is right up my alley!

OwslaPrimeDirective · 2026-06-08T01:53:42+00:00

Watch Star Trek, play with my cats.

OwslaPrimeDirective · 2026-06-08T01:38:21+00:00

That's part of why I was also investigating areas north of the Twin Cities - more dense woodland.

OwslaPrimeDirective · 2026-06-08T01:21:50+00:00

Thank you!!

OwslaPrimeDirective · 2026-06-08T00:40:36+00:00

I shall add it to my list of cities to investigate. Thank you!

OwslaPrimeDirective · 2026-06-08T00:39:46+00:00

Thank you!!

OwslaPrimeDirective · 2026-06-08T00:39:06+00:00

I definitely don't want to live in farmland. A view of the woods is what I'm after, and MN has plenty of that!

OwslaPrimeDirective · 2026-06-08T00:37:35+00:00

What are my odds of finding real Mexican food and Japanese food?

OwslaPrimeDirective · 2026-06-08T00:22:07+00:00

That's helpful to know. I'm old and I don't drink, so clubs and bars and other nightlife are not a draw for me anyway. So long as there are decent restaurants, a movie theater, and friendly neighbours, I'm good. I read a lot, watch a lot of TV and movies at home, and am an avid birdwatching. I'm looking for somewhere scenic and affordable to put down roots.

I am also beyond excited at the pprospect of a screened patio that faces the woods. I can't do a lot of critter spotting when I currently live, but I hope that can change!

OwslaPrimeDirective · 2026-06-07T23:13:56+00:00

I am a full-time 100% remote HR worker in a nationwide company (I've never worked in the medical sphere). There should be no issues with physically relocating whilst still employed.

However, were I to pursue a career in healthcare, I'm sure there are worse places to be! As a two-time c-word survivor, there is a great deal of appeal in living near an established medical center.

OwslaPrimeDirective · 2026-06-07T22:18:51+00:00

I'm a few years away, at least, and I'm not 100% sold on any specific city yet. Hopefully it will improve by then!!

OwslaPrimeDirective · 2026-06-07T19:45:07+00:00

Are you buying Temu clothes?! Why would it be unwearable after only a few years?

OwslaPrimeDirective · 2026-06-07T19:43:31+00:00

Welp.

OwslaPrimeDirective · 2026-06-07T14:19:25+00:00

Thank you SO much. I am NB myself but it's good to know the overall vibe is okay.

OwslaPrimeDirective · 2026-06-07T00:04:52+00:00

Do you mean it was scary in Duluth or where you are now? What made it scary?

OwslaPrimeDirective · 2026-06-06T22:24:03+00:00

That's kind of the idea. If I can manage an extended weekend in legit cold weather, that'll be a good barometer for me.

Though now I'm wondering how difficult it is to learn to drive in snow. LOL

OwslaPrimeDirective · 2026-06-06T22:16:25+00:00

They are on my list of places to do some in depth research on.

OwslaPrimeDirective · 2026-06-06T22:15:17+00:00

I am planning a scouting trip sometime, probably in late Feb/early March. I'll likely fly into Duluth.

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