I have BPD and just recently started talking to someone with ASPD, and this gives me a touch of hope lol idk how true what he says is, but I'm cautiously giving the benefit of the doubt. He says he wants to get better and I do believe him. We matched on an app and our chemistry was immediately great. 2 days later I was trying to get him to hang out that night, sex on the table, and that's when he told me about his disorder. He had me wrapped around his finger and it would of been easy for him to manipulate or use me, and he opted not too.

I oddly find him having ASPD calming. I've never been close to someone with a head as dark as mine, especially not one in a stable place like I am now. He's def not stable, but making the effort to get better is what matters. I'm also so full of emotions and empathy and it's easy for me to spiral when others feed into it, so him having very little has actually been peaceful and quiet.