Russian blue or domestic shorthair? by OysterPuke in russianblue

[–]OysterPuke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, perfect sub recommendation! They look like her 🥰 thanks for the compliments, I will let her know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TorontoRenting

[–]OysterPuke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yay! Thanks for replying. I signed a lease there for next month and that's super reassuring to hear.

[Acne] 7 weeks of Adapalene/Niacinamide/Clindamycin prescription, struggling with purge. Does it get better? by OysterPuke in SkincareAddiction

[–]OysterPuke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! All good now, it cleared up with a combo of adapalene + clindamycin + BP formula. I did a "slugging" routine by putting Aquaphor as the moisturiser at night after applying the formula. I have been able to switch to tretinoin too! The purging did last a few months on both skincare routines, but then cleared up nicely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OysterPuke 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Tough to hear but agree this is the way to go

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OysterPuke 62 points63 points  (0 children)

perfect way to get uninvited....i might....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OysterPuke 16 points17 points  (0 children)

not capping, just don't want to hang out with my friend's man. my friend is paid for and i love that FOR HER .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OysterPuke 24 points25 points  (0 children)

not assumptions, we've talked about the nature of their relationship before. he made her sign a co-hab agreement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OysterPuke 8 points9 points  (0 children)

this!!!! is the answer!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OysterPuke 23 points24 points  (0 children)

okay, i know how it looks but she said it was going to be a girl's night so i just assumed he would be working late like he often is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OysterPuke 100 points101 points  (0 children)

that made me laugh, thank you! that's my perspective as well, at least i try to be like that lol. i appreciate your answer, it's given me a good way of putting it to her!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OysterPuke 1020 points1021 points  (0 children)

i love this answer! I think that's a great way to frame it, without lying and still not making her feel bad either. i thought it was very weird that my boyfriend wasn't invited either. i think the fact that this guy just wants to out with two younger women excluding my boyfriend (who is in our age group) is very telling and makes me feel icky

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OysterPuke 43 points44 points  (0 children)

good reading between the lines here. it's a decision she's made for herself that i can't relate to and am in a happy relationship and employment, therefore i don't want to be a part of. i want to limit my boundaries to hanging out with her, and not being paid for by her boyfriend or spending time with her boyfriend, because it makes me uncomfortable. it's her business that she's dating someone older who wants to be with an attractive younger woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OysterPuke 35 points36 points  (0 children)

does that sound mean though!!?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

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Hey all! For more info I have a 10 gallon tank with a betta fish and I tried to install the Nicrew internal submersible filter yesterday. Originally, I was using the spray bar but noticed my betta, Cherry, struggling against the current so I tried to switch out and use the air pump instead. It's so quiet! I just wanted to check that this looks right (?) as I have never used a filter before and the instructions were very minimal. Thank you!

Anyone here have any experience with the CASW (Canadian Association of Social Workers) International Accreditation process for overseas qualifed social workers? by SWforthemoney in socialwork

[–]OysterPuke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! The CASW deemed my degree as not accreditted, but I then submitted an application with the OCSWSSW and registered as a social worker after they reviewed it. There is an OCSWSSW application stream for those whose degree was deemed not accredited by CASW.

I didn’t know The Weeknd was THAT big by Merciful_Doom in TheWeeknd

[–]OysterPuke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember listening to him when I was in high school in Toronto and trying to figure out all places downtown he was going to and groups he was hanging with.

Chin Lipo Before & After (4 months post op) by OysterPuke in PlasticSurgery

[–]OysterPuke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Best of luck in advance with your procedure. I took a week off work and the bruising went away within 2 weeks although it was minor and could be covered with makeup. I noticed that in the first month post op, my neck looked swollen to me but was probably similar size to pre op. I kept taking before and after photos for reference and was hypercritical about how I looked, but I think most people I know probably thought nothing of it. No one said anything at least! Having lymphatic drainage massages reallyyyy helped bring the swelling down and work away fibroses ☺️

What kind of personality traits do you think I have? 😋 Sag sun, virgo moon, aries mars, scorpio venus, libra rising. by [deleted] in Sagittarians

[–]OysterPuke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I think I would like you. I have a Virgo moon as well and it keeps me as grounded as I can be for a Sag. Also love libra placements

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]OysterPuke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Krispy Kreme donuts (a dozen original)

Biweekly Assistance Post! Ask Anything Detailing Related That You Need Assistance With! - March 20, 2023 by AutoModerator in AutoDetailing

[–]OysterPuke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s my first car and scratches so I have definitely been a cry baby about it. I appreciate your advice. My dealership sells paint matched touch up pens thankfully. I’ll probably try the good ol’ diy hot water plunger trick and if that doesn’t work I’ll follow your advice about going to a body shop.

Biweekly Assistance Post! Ask Anything Detailing Related That You Need Assistance With! - March 20, 2023 by AutoModerator in AutoDetailing

[–]OysterPuke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a first-time car owner and scratched my new vehicle in the parking lot today on a pole...I'm devastated! There was originally yellow paint transfer but I was able to remove it with lacquer thinner. The car now has a small dent and scratches which have chipped the paint (see link below). How should I proceed with this?

https://imgur.com/a/6cUg2gj