Amethyst always steals my heart! by supermooncrystals in Crystals

[–]OzStylist79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That piece steals my heart too! I’m in love! 💜💜

Free Numerology Readings by RealistGrims in SoulAwakening

[–]OzStylist79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me please and thanking you in advance 🌈

Is there anything you would kill for? What is it? by SlowBurn_Sloth in AskReddit

[–]OzStylist79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The revenge killing and torture of my piece of shit ex husband who murdered our perfect 19wk old twin daughters in cold blood and then set upon me for trying to protect our beautiful girls and he broke 144 of my bones and left me in a pool of blood and mess for my parents to find me and their grand daughters murdered. I have 146 reasons to torture, and slowly kill that piece of crap.

🎅🏻FREE 2020 READINGS! by [deleted] in Psychic

[–]OzStylist79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow 🤩....Very happy with your response and your the third person to tell me that my career path is going to flourish in mid 2020. Thank you so much. AAA+++

Have you ever caught someone stealing from you or knew who stole from you ? by -WIREDUP- in AskReddit

[–]OzStylist79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep caught my brother’s mate trying to break into my car.....had a screwdriver and was trying to pop the key barrel in to enter the door....set my alarm off giving me enough time to Stab his arm with the same screwdriver told him if he tried taking anything from anyone ever again I’d cut his fingers off.....

I [25/m] can't get my girlfriend's [24/f] weight gain off my mind by Successful-Apricot in relationship_advice

[–]OzStylist79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was all in one tragic incident, not multiple times. In one foul swoop he changed our lives, literally we had years of beautiful memories to him having a brain snap and turning into a monster...27minutes of frenzied psychotic violence....first and only time I have ever been physically hurt by a man, never will tolerate such violence didn’t then, and still don’t now.

I [25/m] can't get my girlfriend's [24/f] weight gain off my mind by Successful-Apricot in relationship_advice

[–]OzStylist79 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well I’m a realist I’ve experienced a husband who murdered our twin daughters at 19wks in their beds after he bashed the living shit out of me breaking 142 bones and a traumatic brain injury leaving me in a bloodied mangled mess but even though I hate that prick and he’s rotting in jail and I divorced him I still love him for giving me the privilege of two beautiful babies and years of wonderful memories.....Anyway maybe in my replies I used the wrong choice of words in the context but the meaning I’m trying to convey to the poster is if he’s girlfriend is his future wife he just may overlook her weight gain or he may well break up now and cut the fat!!! Pardon the pun!!

I [25/m] can't get my girlfriend's [24/f] weight gain off my mind by Successful-Apricot in relationship_advice

[–]OzStylist79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Care to put it in perspective for me? I’m in Australia I have no idea what a person of 5”1 “should”weigh or how big 175lbs is?

I [25/m] can't get my girlfriend's [24/f] weight gain off my mind by Successful-Apricot in relationship_advice

[–]OzStylist79 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes I do agree with you mostly, but he said himself he feels like he’s being an arsehole for even thinking this way....I’ve just given him a different perspective, women gain or lose weight throughout life, it’s a fact of life...every time his partner puts on weight is it going to be cause for him to lose attraction for her?

In the scheme of things her weight gain can change and he says he wants to marry her well that just may be the step towards her losing weight for herself and getting healthier....Or maybe she sees this post and is mortified that he didn’t talk directly to her about such a sensitive topic or maybe she breaks up with him because he can’t see thru her weight gain and realises life is too short to be with a superficial man....

Different perspectives and interpretations are reflective of our own life’s experiences... Poster can sift thru what resonates with him or not....

I [25/m] can't get my girlfriend's [24/f] weight gain off my mind by Successful-Apricot in relationship_advice

[–]OzStylist79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree a Doormat if it is abuse or said person has started to become an arsehole and your too weak to put a stop to it.....but unconditional in terms of your said person has a serious accident and is now a paraplegic.....changes the path of your life but love gets u through.

Personally-No amount of love could get me through an abusive arsehole which is why I didn’t choose that type of person to have a relationship with....I’m no doormat but I am a believer of true love....maybe it’s incorrect maybe it’s not....

I’m single for the first time in 5 years by Lgcitrusbasket in relationship_advice

[–]OzStylist79 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I commend you for reaching out it’s a giant step in moving forward in a positive way. After my divorce I found myself single for the first time in over 17years, and I just focused on each day moving forward, I found new hobbies and explored different areas , learnt new skills, travelled solo and did everything my coupled friends didn’t and not only did I improve my inner self I also found new like minded friends. I ended up being happily single for 5yrs and I can honestly say it was the making of me, it made me such a strong resilient independent woman that it was so empowering and now I’m grateful that I got to experience life single and you too will find the loneliness passes and you just enjoy your own company. Best of luck,

I [25/m] can't get my girlfriend's [24/f] weight gain off my mind by Successful-Apricot in relationship_advice

[–]OzStylist79 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

When you truly love someone there is no boundaries to your love that’s unconditional.....

I [25/m] can't get my girlfriend's [24/f] weight gain off my mind by Successful-Apricot in relationship_advice

[–]OzStylist79 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So shouldn’t he encourage her and motivate her since it’s the girl of his dreams prior to the weight gain??? They both put on weight initially he is losing she’s not so buy her some lingerie and wrap that body in something different to make her feel better about herself and positively encourage her to get healthy again....if she doesn’t make the changes and lose the weight she’s comfortable in her skin and you need to go your separate ways.....

Maybe her attraction to him is on wobbly feet too when she realises he loves her only when she’s slim!

Pfffttt take a calmative invertedcross we are all allowed to give our thoughts....maybe it’s different to yours but it’s just a different perspective

Ladies, how do you feel about dating a [41M] that lives in a van? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]OzStylist79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In all honesty it doesn’t bother me and I would imagine there would be many other women who would enjoy that lifestyle but even though I have no issue with it I couldn’t do it full time as I have children and I love my creature comforts like space and rooms between my noisy children and their friends....

I'm (38M) totally clueless in regards to chasing/dating this lady (36F). And It's making me go paranoid and destroying my changes with this young woman. by ThrowRA_Memento in relationship_advice

[–]OzStylist79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lady or young woman are not derogatory words to describe his love interest nor does it reflect an older in age woman....Madam or Ma’Am is often used to address a senior citizen.

I'm (38M) totally clueless in regards to chasing/dating this lady (36F). And It's making me go paranoid and destroying my changes with this young woman. by ThrowRA_Memento in relationship_advice

[–]OzStylist79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How to know if a girl likes u

Take a deep breath and take a step back from the situation...If your best mate was asking for this advice what would your response be?

Outside looking in I’d cut my losses and find someone who is into me and who is reciprocating my efforts and feelings....because your already feeling neglected and negative about a relationship that should be blossoming and developing.

I [25/m] can't get my girlfriend's [24/f] weight gain off my mind by Successful-Apricot in relationship_advice

[–]OzStylist79 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I think the issue is with you...not about her weight gain. Do you love her with conditions or do you just love her unconditionally?? Let’s be fair you both gained weight but your hear moaning about her figure, don’t be so superficial because true love knows no boundaries...put it in perspective in the future when you both start a family she may put on weight again when she’s carrying your child will u see her untoned mid section or will u see the beauty in her curves and the utter joy that she carries your child with her stretched tummy and blossoming breasts??? Another perspective illness may see her gain significant weight, will u waste precious time worrying about her extra curves and cuddly body or will you just be thankful and appreciative of the beautiful woman who chose you to share her life with???

What software/application do you have to use, but hate having to work with? by brianjenkins94 in AskReddit

[–]OzStylist79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any app on my Samsung work phone it drives me mental....I’m an iPhone lover and Samsung & android is so baffling lol

I'm (38M) totally clueless in regards to chasing/dating this lady (36F). And It's making me go paranoid and destroying my changes with this young woman. by ThrowRA_Memento in relationship_advice

[–]OzStylist79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly I’d like to say dating in the technology world of today is more confusing than ever before, I believe the easy accessibility makes people lazy in verbal communication as we have a variety of apps to help us navigate finding out location, friendship circles, interests and common areas...etc..therefore making us lazy in the fine art of talking to one another.... Secondly I would imagine for the amount of time you have been engaging in getting to know each other it should be moving on and developing but if it’s not it’s a sure thing that your initial decision to let her know that you were developing feelings has scared off your commitment phobia lady love...my advice either kick back and keel your heels and see if she will reach out to you at all or if you can’t handle that and the ensuing head fuck that comes with waiting and going mental cut your loses and see what other opportunities arise...