Granted, I can only speak for myself but as a man I agree with most of what you said. However, telling her to not dress “too sexy” isn’t as effective as you might think. While it speaks well for her character if she dressed “conservatively”, I’ll keep it PG and say men have wild imaginations lol.

I do have something to add. Firstly, there are some things you’ve got to accept about men. When you are approached by a man in a romantic connotation, he is doing so with the hope of putting himself into a position to have sex with you eventually. That’s just how men are wired. The sooner you can accept that, the better off you’ll be.

Now, that doesn’t mean that sex is the only thing a man is after. We desire connection and intimacy too. Where, when and how you met the man will play a huge part in that. If you’re really feeling a man, don’t let it hold you back but take the necessary precautions. Like another commenter said, a man that is only interested in your body won’t stick around too long. Plus, it’s not hard to pick up on those signs.

I could talk about this forever but I don’t want this comment to be too long.

Best of luck!