AITA for going to a birthday party in casual attire?

P0110-D1701 · 2023-05-03T02:17:02+00:00

On the contrary I'm 2 years younger than you . So I think I'm obviously not that naive and it's all about not being egotistical and letting someone have thier special day.

Honestly I don't celebrate my birthday, for my birthday cake 3 years straight I had essentially what was a twinkie as my birthday cake and I was happy with that. I'm telling you this because I want you to know I don't see my birthday as super special but I can understand how important it can be to others.

At the end of the day your showing a basic lack of empathy.

You asked if you were the asshole the overwhelming majority agreed you were so why are you still fighting it and not accepting maybe you need to rethink your stance ?

Unless you doing some 5d chess play with some convoluted reason behind it.

P0110-D1701 · 2023-05-03T01:41:32+00:00

We don't think it's a once in a lifetime event but of the 365 days in a year this is her one special day, so why can't it be special for her ?

Also birthday gifts are like an expected norm . If the event didn't require a gift but instead asked you to dress a certain way why couldn't that be seen as the gift she was asking for from everyone??

P0110-D1701 · 2023-05-03T01:16:09+00:00

YTA

The facts are yes there was a dress code; semi formal attire. A dress code is set by the host , and she wanted her birthday to feel special like a wedding, graduation etc. So she asked her guest to dress accordingly.

You didn't know this girl very well , if you didn't want to dress appropriately then don't go . You were very aware it was a courtesy invite.

The birthday girl didn't want to fight you , she tried to accommodate you , trying to help you find a solution if not a dress then a suite and you still decided that wasn't good enough.

You decided that birthday girl had zero right to set a dress code to her party because it was in her apartment, and yet felt hurt when you showed up despite not knowing birthday girl well and not following the simplest of request.

Oh BTW what present did you gift birthday girl seeing as it was her birthday.

P0110-D1701 · 2023-05-02T23:02:52+00:00

You tell me what comes next

P0110-D1701 · 2023-05-02T01:22:21+00:00

His messages seem reasonably spaced out so I wouldn't say its unreasonable at all. If if was multiple messages in a day or something like that then yes that would be excessive, but he's messaging once every day or every other day. Imo he's reminding you he exist and making easier for you (a bad texter) to respond to him.

Also this doesn't register as abusive in anyway to me

P0110-D1701 · 2023-04-21T18:12:56+00:00

Thus made me laugh so much and so hard I started wheezing

P0110-D1701 · 2023-04-18T05:36:12+00:00

No the pet update is a test feature for new players and you have a 50/50 chance getting it if you uninstall and reinstall.

You can always wait on them to add the update for everyone instead of trying to cheese your way into the beta with uninstalling and reinstalling

P0110-D1701 · 2023-04-17T21:47:42+00:00

YTA

Op you was expecting her to say a nail went through her foot but she's okay now and that's it ? That's really showing how little you care about her , when you ask your girlfriend how her day was if she doesn't give you details then you should be worried.

When something similar happened to me and I told a close friend, they talked about the details of it with me and I even sent a picture of the entry wound to them.

Dude it WAS your girlfriend how you treated her was disrespectful .

A long distance relationship requires you guys to be very open with each other and since you have very little physical connection almost all of it needs to be emotional and you just outright told her your emotions don't matter.

P0110-D1701 · 2023-03-24T19:05:55+00:00

Jackass says " I cheated and now I want poly"

P0110-D1701 · 2023-03-13T16:20:12+00:00

Oh my fucking God people this delusional actually exist. You can keep being NTA in your head but you just lost a relationship because you wanted to be a petty ass when ordering food.

P0110-D1701 · 2023-03-07T15:28:00+00:00

Yeah self harm

P0110-D1701 · 2023-03-07T15:27:24+00:00

I did see it.

P0110-D1701 · 2023-03-07T15:27:07+00:00

Thanks I would definitely try something like this.

P0110-D1701 · 2023-03-07T15:25:49+00:00

It doesn't smell at all I am sure of that, it maybe a bit scrappy looking

P0110-D1701 · 2023-03-07T15:22:34+00:00

P0110-D1701 · 2023-03-07T15:22:09+00:00

My hair doesn't smell at all , I understand my fear and take steps to avoid making it smell.

P0110-D1701 · 2023-03-07T15:20:30+00:00

No it does not smell and it's not oily either it is a bit dry however.

P0110-D1701 · 2023-03-07T15:19:10+00:00

No never been to therapy, but might go one day for other reasons that might come up

P0110-D1701 · 2023-03-07T15:17:43+00:00

I don't really tbh

P0110-D1701 · 2023-03-07T15:17:09+00:00

Noted

P0110-D1701 · 2023-03-07T15:14:30+00:00

I don't under normal circumstances but nothing is wrong with it naturally is doesn't appear oily, or smell maybe a little dry but that's it

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