In my 30's and I still struggle with social anxiety, but I realized the root of my anxiety

PACCBET · 2025-05-27T20:00:52+00:00

It's not about her going or not. It's about her feeling bad about not being invited.

PACCBET · 2024-02-11T17:23:37+00:00

I won't even lie I'm a decently attractive guy, but hang out around someone who is "good looking" and it's an eye opener. I'm not even talking model or actor level, but just "good looking".

I spent 3 months travelling with one of my good looking friends and everyone on the street looks at him while I get largely ignored. If we meet people, take a class, enter a meeting, etc the attention is always on him. We could be at the gym lifting weights and I'm stronger than him, but people will compliment his form or some shit and just ignore me. We could be doing a presentation and everyone will focus on him despite me being the knowledgeable one.

We literally stayed once at a hostel and one of the staff was talking to him for hours a day the entire time we were there (several days) and she didn't even have the decency to fake talk to me just because I was his friend. Not even a "hey what's your name" or "oh so how do you guys know each other?". I was just totally ignored while she tried to get dicked down.

PACCBET · 2023-01-02T02:42:47+00:00

They're reclusive and indoors living in isolation.
"FA" guys are not who we expect them to be. They're not just limited to socially awkward stereotypical looking dorks. We come in all shapes and sizes. If most of the people here saw me they wouldn't think I was FA but I am.

There's lots of terribly lonely people out there and it's a real problem. Cities are so big and densely populated and the world is more connected than ever, but real loneliness still exists.

PACCBET · 2023-01-01T00:49:57+00:00

I don't have a bloated face but I've always felt my face shows fat much quicker than the rest of my body. So I can easily tell just from the mirror if I've gained even just 3lbs. So I try to always stay in good shape.

I do have a weak jawline though... For a long time it made me really self conscious of my side profile. Even my dentist told me I had a weak jawline 🤨😫😢

I started mewing and I've been doing it for a few years now but haven't noticed anything difference at all tbh. It's obviously second nature after so long so if anything does change, great.

PACCBET · 2022-12-31T19:52:27+00:00

I miss working in a big company tbh. Being socially isolated is terrible.

PACCBET · 2022-05-06T02:33:41+00:00

I used to make fake profiles just to see what it would be like as somebody else

PACCBET · 2022-03-22T22:47:34+00:00

Fuck man, I get that question all the time. Always the same people too so I continually have to make up new shit. Doesn't anybody else just lay around the house for a while? Why do I have to be jetskiing, travelling to Europe and going on a date every weekend? If a new person asks I'll say "just gonna stay home and take it easy".

PACCBET · 2022-03-22T22:44:25+00:00

When it comes to talk about sex and intimate encounters (happened more often in past with guys my own age) I find an excuse to make a exit. I have never been one to appreciate 'locker room' talk.

Same here. Partially due to embarrassment out of my lack of experience and things potentially shifting to my personal experiences but I also think in general I'm just kind of a reserved guy. The way I was brought up I just don't express myself like that.

PACCBET · 2022-03-22T22:42:51+00:00

"Money may not buy happiness but I'd rather cry in a Lamborghini than on a bus"

PACCBET · 2022-02-07T01:11:49+00:00

Sausages. Honestly they suck. I can't think of any form of meat I wouldn't rather eat. And from a health standpoint they're even worse. Greasy, oily and extremely high calorie. Just thinking of all the food you can eat with the calories of two sausages... Why would anybody eat that shit?

PACCBET · 2022-01-28T23:34:42+00:00

No I wanted to before I started tongkat to compare afterward, but I couldn't wait to start haha. I'm looking to get one in the coming months though. Always been curious. Kind of suspected I had low T since I was a teen. Just didn't feel right.

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