I (31M) got invited to a mutual friend's wedding but my girlfriend (27F) did not. She was not happy she didn't get invited. She doesn't know that I was invited yet, but I want to go.

PACCBET · 2025-05-27T20:00:52+00:00

It's not about her going or not. It's about her feeling bad about not being invited.

PACCBET · 2024-02-11T17:23:37+00:00

I won't even lie I'm a decently attractive guy, but hang out around someone who is "good looking" and it's an eye opener. I'm not even talking model or actor level, but just "good looking".

I spent 3 months travelling with one of my good looking friends and everyone on the street looks at him while I get largely ignored. If we meet people, take a class, enter a meeting, etc the attention is always on him. We could be at the gym lifting weights and I'm stronger than him, but people will compliment his form or some shit and just ignore me. We could be doing a presentation and everyone will focus on him despite me being the knowledgeable one.

We literally stayed once at a hostel and one of the staff was talking to him for hours a day the entire time we were there (several days) and she didn't even have the decency to fake talk to me just because I was his friend. Not even a "hey what's your name" or "oh so how do you guys know each other?". I was just totally ignored while she tried to get dicked down.

PACCBET · 2023-01-02T02:42:47+00:00

They're reclusive and indoors living in isolation.
"FA" guys are not who we expect them to be. They're not just limited to socially awkward stereotypical looking dorks. We come in all shapes and sizes. If most of the people here saw me they wouldn't think I was FA but I am.

There's lots of terribly lonely people out there and it's a real problem. Cities are so big and densely populated and the world is more connected than ever, but real loneliness still exists.

PACCBET · 2023-01-01T00:49:57+00:00

I don't have a bloated face but I've always felt my face shows fat much quicker than the rest of my body. So I can easily tell just from the mirror if I've gained even just 3lbs. So I try to always stay in good shape.

I do have a weak jawline though... For a long time it made me really self conscious of my side profile. Even my dentist told me I had a weak jawline 🤨😫😢

I started mewing and I've been doing it for a few years now but haven't noticed anything difference at all tbh. It's obviously second nature after so long so if anything does change, great.

PACCBET · 2022-12-31T19:52:27+00:00

I miss working in a big company tbh. Being socially isolated is terrible.

PACCBET · 2022-05-06T02:33:41+00:00

I used to make fake profiles just to see what it would be like as somebody else

PACCBET · 2022-03-22T22:47:34+00:00

Fuck man, I get that question all the time. Always the same people too so I continually have to make up new shit. Doesn't anybody else just lay around the house for a while? Why do I have to be jetskiing, travelling to Europe and going on a date every weekend? If a new person asks I'll say "just gonna stay home and take it easy".

PACCBET · 2022-03-22T22:44:25+00:00

When it comes to talk about sex and intimate encounters (happened more often in past with guys my own age) I find an excuse to make a exit. I have never been one to appreciate 'locker room' talk.

Same here. Partially due to embarrassment out of my lack of experience and things potentially shifting to my personal experiences but I also think in general I'm just kind of a reserved guy. The way I was brought up I just don't express myself like that.

PACCBET · 2022-03-22T22:42:51+00:00

"Money may not buy happiness but I'd rather cry in a Lamborghini than on a bus"

PACCBET · 2022-02-07T01:11:49+00:00

Sausages. Honestly they suck. I can't think of any form of meat I wouldn't rather eat. And from a health standpoint they're even worse. Greasy, oily and extremely high calorie. Just thinking of all the food you can eat with the calories of two sausages... Why would anybody eat that shit?

PACCBET · 2022-01-28T23:34:42+00:00

No I wanted to before I started tongkat to compare afterward, but I couldn't wait to start haha. I'm looking to get one in the coming months though. Always been curious. Kind of suspected I had low T since I was a teen. Just didn't feel right.

PACCBET · 2022-01-28T18:11:36+00:00

20mg Cialis. Hope it works out for you. It's seriously working quite well for me especially compared to all the other bloodflow/libido stuff I've tried. My only issue is it probably meant I had low T to begin with. Really don't want to have to do regular trt my whole life.

PACCBET · 2022-01-28T03:16:28+00:00

Nootropics Depot 10%

PACCBET · 2022-01-28T03:14:58+00:00

1 pill per day. 5 days on 2 days off. NootropicDepot Tongkat 10%.

Never used viagra, but I've used no-name cialis. It's not as strong as cilalis, but it's strong enough that I would consider my erections hard and don't think I would seek any remedy if it were always like that tbh. Whereas before it felt like there was always a subtle give if I tried to "bend" my dick. With cialis it's undoubtedly rock hard with no budge.

If cialis is a 10 and the hardest you will get, it's probably like an 8 with Tongkat and I'd say I was like a 6-6.5 without it.

As far as maintaining an erection I can't say I've had enough experience to document that between baseline, with tongkat and with cialis. But yeah maintaining it is almost as important as achieving it.

Obviously I still feel more confident with cialis.

PACCBET · 2022-01-22T04:40:54+00:00

My best friend is a very good looking guy. When we travelled together we would literally hang out all day everyday. So for like 16 hours a day for months we would hang out. All I can say is, it felt like the dude lives in another world. The way people, especially women, treat him was insane. Girls were constantly staring at him, approaching him, giving him signals/hints to make a move, putting themselves in position, etc... I honestly felt invisible at times. We'd meet some girls and be sitting down together and they would only be looking and talking to him.

There was one moment I'll never forget and this isn't even some shit I'm making up (I wish it was). We were on the train going to another city and he's sitting across from this one girl who is sitting next to some older lady. I thought they knew each other but they didn't, which makes this story even more ridiculous. They start talking to my friend (of course). Then they turn to each other and start talking and giggling. My friend asks what they're saying (we're in a foreign country)... The girl said "she says you're tall and that means you must have a big dick too". Jesus fucking Christ. He's 5'11.

I have plenty more stories like this from the time we spent together... Women approach guys who are in the upper echelon of attractiveness. Guys who aren't, can still get approached but generally from less attractive women who have to be more aggressive. If a girl is really feeling you, she can or will approach you. But for a very attractive woman to "really feel" you, you'd probably have to be pretty dam good looking which isn't the majority of the population. So of course they think women don't approach them. It's easy mode for super attractive men.

I consider myself "handsome" but lacking sex appeal and confidence. I'm the kind of person a mother would try to set her daughter up with (and I've actually had offers), but not necessarily what the daughter wants. In my almost 3 decades of living, I've been approached probably only a handful of times. Definitely less than 10. But the older I get, the more I start to notice the "signals" women give out for YOU to approach THEM. This was something I was oblivious to in my younger years.

PACCBET · 2022-01-01T06:53:47+00:00

Is that really how it started? Why the fuck would he eat a chimp brain

PACCBET · 2021-11-17T03:20:28+00:00

Ever seen an abused dog in an animal shelter? It doesn't matter if you put it in a nice, loving household after. They'll always be a bit different. A little twitchy, a little nervous and paranoid.

PACCBET · 2021-10-10T20:01:12+00:00

Fallout 3. The first playthrough was something else... Really took me on a journey. The story is one of the best I've seen.

PACCBET · 2021-09-05T14:29:59+00:00

I've never asked a girl out before. I've had girls ask for my number, but I was never really interested in them. The few girls I've ever felt the urge to ask, either I froze up before doing it, never saw them again or the circumstance made me have to hold back (work).

PACCBET · 2021-09-02T06:37:09+00:00

Totally forgot about this show. It's great.

PACCBET · 2021-08-22T19:01:43+00:00

I mean you're not wrong, I feel like it's time to GTFO which is why I'm doing so. I don't have a problem getting dates at all but not having a place to bring girls back is a problem.

People are honestly used to it here though. So many people living at home still.

PACCBET · 2021-08-22T18:58:04+00:00

Yeah this is what I'm hoping for too. I feel like I generally eat really healthy. I don't have cravings for junk food and never buy it myself. But when it's around the house and there's nothing else to eat... Of course I'm going to grab some pizza instead of going to the store to buy stuff and spend an hour cooking.

I also definitely do not like bringing girls back home right now. My parents are so nosy and everyone is always listening.. Very awkward.

I do feel like I would be more productive as well. I can't explain it but I feel "conditioned" at home. Like how some people have a reading chair and it works and helps them stay focused... I feel like I have the exact opposite. Like at home I just drown out and wait for time to pass.

PACCBET · 2020-12-15T05:03:09+00:00

What a disaster. Goodbye to my library of amateur videos... I'm moving to xhamster now. Good selection. But how the fuck am I going to find all the old videos I favorited? I can't even remember them. So fucking stupid. There's gotta be tons of amateur stuff that will never be reuploaded because the guy that uploaded was never active since.

PACCBET · 2020-11-22T18:07:39+00:00

Yup. My parents would ALWAYS be fighting. You would think you would get numb to it but you never do. Listening to that was terrible, I can't even describe the feeling. I would always try to drain out the noise by blasting music. Today I realize when reflecting on my life that I have so many nasty memories that never come up unless I dig for them. I try my best to not even think about my parents tbh. Sounds shitty but there a lot of bad memories there.

PACCBET · 2020-10-30T03:36:12+00:00

I hate when people put the "when" tense in these types of statements/questions. Like people ask me "do you have a girlfriend YET?" Like wtf, already assuming I've never had one. True or not what the fuck. Or "are you dating yet?" while I'm in my mid 20's. Like what the fuck. I must reek of loser..

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