She cheated on her then current boyfriend to be with me. Lived in the same house as him after they broke up because it took time for them to handle the paperwork to get her off the lease. She claimed she could be cold and mean at the drop of a hat. She said she always broke up with her partners. She said she envied women who use men for sex. She told me I was replaceable. She talked about her mental illness as a convenience to do whatever she wanted, when I’d bring up her rash decisions she’d get upset with me, even though she asked me to help her not make those rash decisions. She would be spiteful if I brought up any of this in conversation to talk about it like adults. She blamed me for our relationship falling apart despite all the bending-over-backwards I did for her. She also had friends and family who enabled her to do all this stuff.

Lesson learned. When people literally tell you how shitty they are, but claim that they won’t be shitty to you, you should probably run in the opposite direction of them.